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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 378358" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>That' pretty much how I have handled contact with my mother for the past 2 years, Crazy. But even that much is too much at this point because of her "detaching" one day, and this kind of koi a week or two later. Next will come the threats to call difficult child's GAL. And she can- this is how my bro was able to tell difficult child's GAL a bunch of lies before.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I tried this last year when difficult child was committed and believe it or not, the Department of Juvenile Justice facility told me that they would not stop a letter from anyone unless ordered by a judge or the written request came from the PO. This current PO did do as I requested so would probably do it again. If I move before difficult child is transferred to whatever facility he'll be assigned to and another request like this is sent, I don't know if I'll be able to get the next PO to do it or not. See, once I move, this PO has to forward all difficult child's stuff and transfre it to whatever jurisdiction I move to and a PO from there will be assigned.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/Graemlins/rofl.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":rofl:" title="rofl :rofl:" data-shortname=":rofl:" /></p><p></p><p></p><p>mm277: I worked thru a lot of it in intensive therapy before but of course, that was years before difficult child was born so the stuff pertaining to him and my family has caused an opening of an old wound. I am trying to get an appropriate therapist on board asap to work thru the current stuff going on with me, this being part of it.</p><p></p><p>As far as grandparent rights when difficult child isn't in Department of Juvenile Justice, I had looked that up before, too, and had finally told my mother once that I didn't know what rights she thought she had, but while she had a right to have some form of contact with difficult child and visit him, which she knows I have never stopped, she does NOT have the right to tell me how to raise him or the right to require me to bring him to a different state to see her- she does not have parental rights.</p><p></p><p>But as long as difficult child is under the authority of juvenile courts, they can over-ride anything I say or do; even the PO can. Of course this time, difficult child will most likely be 17yo when he's released again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 378358, member: 3699"] That' pretty much how I have handled contact with my mother for the past 2 years, Crazy. But even that much is too much at this point because of her "detaching" one day, and this kind of koi a week or two later. Next will come the threats to call difficult child's GAL. And she can- this is how my bro was able to tell difficult child's GAL a bunch of lies before. I tried this last year when difficult child was committed and believe it or not, the Department of Juvenile Justice facility told me that they would not stop a letter from anyone unless ordered by a judge or the written request came from the PO. This current PO did do as I requested so would probably do it again. If I move before difficult child is transferred to whatever facility he'll be assigned to and another request like this is sent, I don't know if I'll be able to get the next PO to do it or not. See, once I move, this PO has to forward all difficult child's stuff and transfre it to whatever jurisdiction I move to and a PO from there will be assigned. :rofl: mm277: I worked thru a lot of it in intensive therapy before but of course, that was years before difficult child was born so the stuff pertaining to him and my family has caused an opening of an old wound. I am trying to get an appropriate therapist on board asap to work thru the current stuff going on with me, this being part of it. As far as grandparent rights when difficult child isn't in Department of Juvenile Justice, I had looked that up before, too, and had finally told my mother once that I didn't know what rights she thought she had, but while she had a right to have some form of contact with difficult child and visit him, which she knows I have never stopped, she does NOT have the right to tell me how to raise him or the right to require me to bring him to a different state to see her- she does not have parental rights. But as long as difficult child is under the authority of juvenile courts, they can over-ride anything I say or do; even the PO can. Of course this time, difficult child will most likely be 17yo when he's released again. [/QUOTE]
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