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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 378426" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Nope- I was ok having an "arms-length" relationship of sorts after my intensive therapy, then especially after difficult child was born but had several reminders thru his youth that I needed to keep a close eye on things because she obviously didn't "get" what was appropriate to say, do, and expose a child to. But after the situation with my bro filing for custody and she gave me some phoney apology where she also basicly admitted that she knew what she was doing, then to continue to disrespect my wishes, refuse to acknowledge any responsibility whatsoever in difficult child's inability to get services, and not giving a darn about talking to him or seeing him UNLESS it is thru letters while he's incarcerated and she can send them directly, and knowing how manipulative and dihonest she really is?? Nope.</p><p></p><p>But I'm willing to keep some contact with her in order to screen what she's trying to get to difficult child.</p><p></p><p>This woman gave me store-bought brownies in plaistic wrappers for breakfast in elementary school but sat right there in front of me 15 years later and told her best friend (that my mother was mooching off of) that she cooked me breakfast every morning and I should be more grateful, then kept trying to lie about it when I spoke up and said BS. It wasn't that I couldn't or didn't survive eating the brownies for breakfast- it's the way she will lie to get others to pity her and "admire her" at my expense. And I honestly don't think she cares about difficult child being thrown under the bus either- or at least I know she won't once/if she ever figures out that he won't be a young adult male who's going to take care of her and tell her whatever she wants to hear the rest of her life. She thought my bro would do this for her if she helped him get custody of difficult child. Once she found out my bro had no intention of doing that and I was NOT about to keep my mouth shut about this family's dirty laundry, she changed that position. Now she only has one sis and difficult child left to hope for taking care of her.</p><p></p><p>She trashed that sis for years for becoming very religious. Then once my bro stepped out of her plan, I called my mom and she had religious music on in the background. I asked what she was listening to because it was very loud. She said "oh, it's religious music- I thought the call was going to be from my sis".</p><p></p><p>Are you starting to see what we are dealing with here? It is so bad that most everyone assumes I must be lying. But I'm not.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 378426, member: 3699"] Nope- I was ok having an "arms-length" relationship of sorts after my intensive therapy, then especially after difficult child was born but had several reminders thru his youth that I needed to keep a close eye on things because she obviously didn't "get" what was appropriate to say, do, and expose a child to. But after the situation with my bro filing for custody and she gave me some phoney apology where she also basicly admitted that she knew what she was doing, then to continue to disrespect my wishes, refuse to acknowledge any responsibility whatsoever in difficult child's inability to get services, and not giving a darn about talking to him or seeing him UNLESS it is thru letters while he's incarcerated and she can send them directly, and knowing how manipulative and dihonest she really is?? Nope. But I'm willing to keep some contact with her in order to screen what she's trying to get to difficult child. This woman gave me store-bought brownies in plaistic wrappers for breakfast in elementary school but sat right there in front of me 15 years later and told her best friend (that my mother was mooching off of) that she cooked me breakfast every morning and I should be more grateful, then kept trying to lie about it when I spoke up and said BS. It wasn't that I couldn't or didn't survive eating the brownies for breakfast- it's the way she will lie to get others to pity her and "admire her" at my expense. And I honestly don't think she cares about difficult child being thrown under the bus either- or at least I know she won't once/if she ever figures out that he won't be a young adult male who's going to take care of her and tell her whatever she wants to hear the rest of her life. She thought my bro would do this for her if she helped him get custody of difficult child. Once she found out my bro had no intention of doing that and I was NOT about to keep my mouth shut about this family's dirty laundry, she changed that position. Now she only has one sis and difficult child left to hope for taking care of her. She trashed that sis for years for becoming very religious. Then once my bro stepped out of her plan, I called my mom and she had religious music on in the background. I asked what she was listening to because it was very loud. She said "oh, it's religious music- I thought the call was going to be from my sis". Are you starting to see what we are dealing with here? It is so bad that most everyone assumes I must be lying. But I'm not. [/QUOTE]
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