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My son, car insurance/repairs, SSI, job, a cello.... reality check please?
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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 618675" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>No apologies. I get what you were saying. It is all so overwhelming. I think we have to get clear about the fact that people are always responsible for their actions. That is something I really struggled over for a long time. That one fact clears away a lot of the Fog. </p><p></p><p>Then our difficult children, most of them, are adults. That is another fog-clearing fact. Responsibilities come with adulthood. </p><p></p><p>even allowing for "failure to launch" there comes a time. </p><p></p><p>I love my son and want to see him have a good life but It. Is. Up. To. Him.</p><p></p><p>And I am not going to bottle feed him anymore. </p><p></p><p>It will be so hard to completely stop and then stick with it. I am going to try because what is the alternative. It is not good for him or for me. </p><p></p><p>Realizing all situations are different and all difficult child capabilities are different...hoping we can all find a path where there is peace for us.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Sent from my iPhone using ConductDisorders</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 618675, member: 17542"] No apologies. I get what you were saying. It is all so overwhelming. I think we have to get clear about the fact that people are always responsible for their actions. That is something I really struggled over for a long time. That one fact clears away a lot of the Fog. Then our difficult children, most of them, are adults. That is another fog-clearing fact. Responsibilities come with adulthood. even allowing for "failure to launch" there comes a time. I love my son and want to see him have a good life but It. Is. Up. To. Him. And I am not going to bottle feed him anymore. It will be so hard to completely stop and then stick with it. I am going to try because what is the alternative. It is not good for him or for me. Realizing all situations are different and all difficult child capabilities are different...hoping we can all find a path where there is peace for us. Sent from my iPhone using ConductDisorders [/QUOTE]
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