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My son is choosing homelessness
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 625875" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I am tempted to ask if he had any chaos in his very early years, but you know what? By now it doesn't matter. He is of age and needs to get help on his own. You can't do it for him and you can't control his choices. If he has a mental illness, he needs to be the one to make appointments and get help for himself because you can't. If he is a substance abuser, he is the only one who can make himself quit. I also feel you should learn detachment and I think you should focus on your own life and making it a good one, in spite of having a struggling child. If substance abuse is an issue, I'd go to a Nar-Anon meeting to get real face time help and human concern. If he is just "off" I'd go to a Families Anonymous meeting. Take care of you. You earned it. We all have, if we are on this forum. </p><p></p><p>Sorry about your hurting mommy heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 625875, member: 1550"] I am tempted to ask if he had any chaos in his very early years, but you know what? By now it doesn't matter. He is of age and needs to get help on his own. You can't do it for him and you can't control his choices. If he has a mental illness, he needs to be the one to make appointments and get help for himself because you can't. If he is a substance abuser, he is the only one who can make himself quit. I also feel you should learn detachment and I think you should focus on your own life and making it a good one, in spite of having a struggling child. If substance abuse is an issue, I'd go to a Nar-Anon meeting to get real face time help and human concern. If he is just "off" I'd go to a Families Anonymous meeting. Take care of you. You earned it. We all have, if we are on this forum. Sorry about your hurting mommy heart. [/QUOTE]
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