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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 489507" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Just my opinion, Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), attachment or not any of it.... I would not say you are not going to be anything to him with the adoption situation. It will play in his head, even if he was a typical kid neurologically. Just one more thing to have to sort out then. Unless you really mean it?? but I remember my dad saying he didn't love me once...he was so mad, really hea meant he didn't love what I was doing, but that was in teh OLDEN days and so no psycho babble to tell him to say it differently. I held on to that during every conflict and threw it back at him each and every time. sometimes I really did wonder and sometimes I just knew it would give me leverage as a teen. </p><p></p><p>You have enough on your plate to risk that, just MHO.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 489507, member: 12886"] Just my opinion, Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), attachment or not any of it.... I would not say you are not going to be anything to him with the adoption situation. It will play in his head, even if he was a typical kid neurologically. Just one more thing to have to sort out then. Unless you really mean it?? but I remember my dad saying he didn't love me once...he was so mad, really hea meant he didn't love what I was doing, but that was in teh OLDEN days and so no psycho babble to tell him to say it differently. I held on to that during every conflict and threw it back at him each and every time. sometimes I really did wonder and sometimes I just knew it would give me leverage as a teen. You have enough on your plate to risk that, just MHO. [/QUOTE]
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