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<blockquote data-quote="Quicksand" data-source="post: 673922" data-attributes="member: 19405"><p>I talked to him today, he will be here tomorrow morning. The treatment center told me to take him to the ER for a psychiatric evaluation and then to request that he be sent to the specific treatment center. I reiterated to him that he cannot contact ex girlfriend. He assured me he wouldn't. I told him we will go to the hospital as soon as he arrives. He agreed. After the treatment center, I have a dialectical therapy center that specializes in personality and mood disorders along with substance abuse. They also offer sober living houses. </p><p>Yesterday, my husband told me he didn't want to talk or think about it anymore because he had to get his head right to go back to work. Which I honored. I'm going to whine a bit here, but I'm so damn overwhelmed I can't see straight. It's all been on me. I know it affects my H and my daughter at it is in no way my daughters responsibility but my husband has only sent my son some "I love you" texts. All communication, researching, calling places, going to narc anon meetings EVERYTHING has been on me. </p><p>I called my sons ex girlfriend (on the advice of of friend/ and I fully agree) to let her know that he is coming back but will immediately go to a treatment center. Just so she's aware because he did threaten her. I told my H what I did and he got angry with me! It's all on me but if I do something that he doesn't agree with, he's mad. It feels really unfair. I'm just getting this out of me so I can stop crying. I was sitting there quietly breathing and letting all this hell pass through me when my H came home, we started talking and it turned into him being pissed at me. I going to hang in there and I have a mom that I found through 855-DRUGFREE calling me in 2 hours, so, I know she'll help me. I hope one day I can be of help to someone out there... I know one thing, I'm not doing this again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Quicksand, post: 673922, member: 19405"] I talked to him today, he will be here tomorrow morning. The treatment center told me to take him to the ER for a psychiatric evaluation and then to request that he be sent to the specific treatment center. I reiterated to him that he cannot contact ex girlfriend. He assured me he wouldn't. I told him we will go to the hospital as soon as he arrives. He agreed. After the treatment center, I have a dialectical therapy center that specializes in personality and mood disorders along with substance abuse. They also offer sober living houses. Yesterday, my husband told me he didn't want to talk or think about it anymore because he had to get his head right to go back to work. Which I honored. I'm going to whine a bit here, but I'm so damn overwhelmed I can't see straight. It's all been on me. I know it affects my H and my daughter at it is in no way my daughters responsibility but my husband has only sent my son some "I love you" texts. All communication, researching, calling places, going to narc anon meetings EVERYTHING has been on me. I called my sons ex girlfriend (on the advice of of friend/ and I fully agree) to let her know that he is coming back but will immediately go to a treatment center. Just so she's aware because he did threaten her. I told my H what I did and he got angry with me! It's all on me but if I do something that he doesn't agree with, he's mad. It feels really unfair. I'm just getting this out of me so I can stop crying. I was sitting there quietly breathing and letting all this hell pass through me when my H came home, we started talking and it turned into him being pissed at me. I going to hang in there and I have a mom that I found through 855-DRUGFREE calling me in 2 hours, so, I know she'll help me. I hope one day I can be of help to someone out there... I know one thing, I'm not doing this again. [/QUOTE]
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