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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 688329" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Thank you IB. This post brought tears to my eyes. I was forced to accept that it is really same old, same old.</p><p></p><p>I have not changed, and he has changed, but on his terms. </p><p></p><p>I have this whole better life ready for him to walk into. But it is not the life that he is wanting or needing. </p><p></p><p> All he want is a place to stay and minimal responsibilities. To come to our house to feel part of a family, eat everything in sight and listen to music. Not more.</p><p></p><p>It is very sad to me that I cannot help him without enabling his lifestyle which I do not want to do. But that is the truth of it. </p><p></p><p>I am back to what COM says: her most effective times were when she did nothing and let her son solve his own life.</p><p></p><p>I feel sad for me.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 688329, member: 18958"] Thank you IB. This post brought tears to my eyes. I was forced to accept that it is really same old, same old. I have not changed, and he has changed, but on his terms. I have this whole better life ready for him to walk into. But it is not the life that he is wanting or needing. All he want is a place to stay and minimal responsibilities. To come to our house to feel part of a family, eat everything in sight and listen to music. Not more. It is very sad to me that I cannot help him without enabling his lifestyle which I do not want to do. But that is the truth of it. I am back to what COM says: her most effective times were when she did nothing and let her son solve his own life. I feel sad for me. [/QUOTE]
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