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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 252140" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am so sorry. 14 yo's having a baby is just scary. Gentle hugs for your frazzled nerves.</p><p></p><p>CJ is EXACTLY right. When difficult child is out, get rid of all his stuff except 1 week's clothes (and not the "cool" clothes, the boring ones he doesn't really like), strip his room to mattress on the floor, dresser with 1 week's clothes, blanket, pillow, sheets. Clock to get himself up, lamp if there is no overhead light. NO tv, radio, cd player, mp3 player, NOTHING.</p><p></p><p>And follow CJ's advice re: reporting him EVERY time he sets foot outside/off your property with-o permission. Just keep doing it. Document EVERYTHING. The business cards are a great way to document things.</p><p></p><p>If you find weed or other drugs in his room or possession, CALL THE COPS. INSIST they take him in as you do NOT want to tolerate that in your home. </p><p></p><p>He is going to be furious. Keep your cell phone and cordless phone on your person at all times. Lock your door at night when you sleep.</p><p></p><p>I hope you can get him into court soon and get him into an Residential Treatment Center (RTC).</p><p></p><p>Gentle hugs,</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 252140, member: 1233"] I am so sorry. 14 yo's having a baby is just scary. Gentle hugs for your frazzled nerves. CJ is EXACTLY right. When difficult child is out, get rid of all his stuff except 1 week's clothes (and not the "cool" clothes, the boring ones he doesn't really like), strip his room to mattress on the floor, dresser with 1 week's clothes, blanket, pillow, sheets. Clock to get himself up, lamp if there is no overhead light. NO tv, radio, cd player, mp3 player, NOTHING. And follow CJ's advice re: reporting him EVERY time he sets foot outside/off your property with-o permission. Just keep doing it. Document EVERYTHING. The business cards are a great way to document things. If you find weed or other drugs in his room or possession, CALL THE COPS. INSIST they take him in as you do NOT want to tolerate that in your home. He is going to be furious. Keep your cell phone and cordless phone on your person at all times. Lock your door at night when you sleep. I hope you can get him into court soon and get him into an Residential Treatment Center (RTC). Gentle hugs, Susie [/QUOTE]
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