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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 411346"><p>Nancy, i so feel for you. I saw your post earlier today to me. I wanted to respond but I was at work and couldn't. I feel like you and I have been on such similar paths with our difficult child's. I really think with your daughter it is the drugs and alcohol talking.... until she deals with her addiction nothing else will matter. I can totally imagine that scenario with my son. I don't think he has ever threatened to kill us but he has definitely wished me dead etc. It is an awful feeling I know. I just think a kid on drugs can be mean mean mean. You are doing the right things by separating yourself and cutting her off financially..... and I would not help her at all until she is really willing to get more tx for her addiction. As far as the other family goes it is awful they allow her to drink and drug at their home..... and I am sure she is feeding them a line about how her parents don't understand her blah blah blah. The family my son stayed with also allowed drinkng and drugging in their home... and yet when they got to know me they stopped believing his stories and at least kept me posted and they tried to help him. Of course they couldn't really because as long as he was drugging he couldn't really be helped. My hope is that something knocks the wind out of your daughters sails and makes her wake up.... that may be getting arrested and spending a few nights in jaili. Awful as that is it might be a wake up call for her. Hugs and thoughts coming your way.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 411346"] Nancy, i so feel for you. I saw your post earlier today to me. I wanted to respond but I was at work and couldn't. I feel like you and I have been on such similar paths with our difficult child's. I really think with your daughter it is the drugs and alcohol talking.... until she deals with her addiction nothing else will matter. I can totally imagine that scenario with my son. I don't think he has ever threatened to kill us but he has definitely wished me dead etc. It is an awful feeling I know. I just think a kid on drugs can be mean mean mean. You are doing the right things by separating yourself and cutting her off financially..... and I would not help her at all until she is really willing to get more tx for her addiction. As far as the other family goes it is awful they allow her to drink and drug at their home..... and I am sure she is feeding them a line about how her parents don't understand her blah blah blah. The family my son stayed with also allowed drinkng and drugging in their home... and yet when they got to know me they stopped believing his stories and at least kept me posted and they tried to help him. Of course they couldn't really because as long as he was drugging he couldn't really be helped. My hope is that something knocks the wind out of your daughters sails and makes her wake up.... that may be getting arrested and spending a few nights in jaili. Awful as that is it might be a wake up call for her. Hugs and thoughts coming your way. [/QUOTE]
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