Would you let a 14 year old girl spend the night with your 15 year old son??? I say hell no. My husband thinks if they are going to do it they will do it elsewhere... And is not really thinking it matters. They are already "hooking up" but no sex so far as he says.... I am irate that any mom would let their daughter sleep at a boys house, but again her mom is well... I'll keep that to myself.. I am the stepmom and have no say but I'm mortified and ****** that he thinks its ok . Am I wrong.