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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 316669" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>I don't know about the laws? But doesn't the fact that that she used drugs under his care make it easier for you to demand supervised visits? And his past? </p><p></p><p>I agree with the others as well. </p><p>My father was/is an addict, he was in prison when I was born for heroin. He used drugs around me and put my brother and I in very unsafe situations. </p><p>When my Mother and Step-Dad pushed for him to leave and give up all rights, I was ******. </p><p>He did disappear though, the drugs and partying were more important than the kids. </p><p>I spent years building up some fantasy about what kind of person he was. </p><p>My Mom was pretty honest about him though. She was no angel either. </p><p>It took many years for me to get to know him and realize just how horrible he is. He is very good at drawing people in and manipulating people, playing the it is everyone else's problem card. </p><p></p><p>I hated my Mom, I hated everyone, I think like BBK said, for what I think a kid wishes they had. </p><p></p><p>How could Dad be that horrible? I am his Daughter... </p><p></p><p>Good luck you are doing a great job.</p><p></p><p>Oh, by the way, there is no way in heck I will ever let my Daughter's see my Father again. They met him once and then went to visit him another time. </p><p>Never again. I will be honest with them when they are mature enough to understand.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 316669, member: 3155"] I don't know about the laws? But doesn't the fact that that she used drugs under his care make it easier for you to demand supervised visits? And his past? I agree with the others as well. My father was/is an addict, he was in prison when I was born for heroin. He used drugs around me and put my brother and I in very unsafe situations. When my Mother and Step-Dad pushed for him to leave and give up all rights, I was ******. He did disappear though, the drugs and partying were more important than the kids. I spent years building up some fantasy about what kind of person he was. My Mom was pretty honest about him though. She was no angel either. It took many years for me to get to know him and realize just how horrible he is. He is very good at drawing people in and manipulating people, playing the it is everyone else's problem card. I hated my Mom, I hated everyone, I think like BBK said, for what I think a kid wishes they had. How could Dad be that horrible? I am his Daughter... Good luck you are doing a great job. Oh, by the way, there is no way in heck I will ever let my Daughter's see my Father again. They met him once and then went to visit him another time. Never again. I will be honest with them when they are mature enough to understand. [/QUOTE]
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