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Need advice for Satanica's placement options - could get quite wordy
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<blockquote data-quote="Bluemoon" data-source="post: 382109"><p>I'm agreeing that a call to the police is in order next time she becomes violent or threatens to harm herself or anyone else in the house.</p><p> </p><p>I completely understand your frustration and potential rage, but I fear it is going to take you places that will...let's just say that for all concerned, to call the police and have her placed in Juvie is probably a lessor evil. You can explain to her that this is not what you wanted, but that because of her behavior you have no choice anymore.</p><p> </p><p>I do hope that you don't call her Satanica or in any way let her know that you think of her this way. Oh, I totally get the feelings behind it, but I also know that if she feels she cannot be good, has no good in her, then she will likely become very, very, good at being bad.</p><p> </p><p>By no means am I saying that you are to blame for anything she is doing, but in the end, you want to know that you did not allow her illness to make you sick, too. Just as sick as she is....though you would be provoked by her, of course. Just don't forget, she is driven, too, by horrors in her head that we can hardly even imagine.</p><p> </p><p>As harrowing as it is to have to deal with her, it must be 100 times more so to BE her. She cannot get away from her own head.</p><p> </p><p>So, I agree that she MUST be stopped from destroying your family as well as herself, but it can be done with a compassionate heart just the same.</p><p> </p><p>Best wishes and please don't think that I am critisizing you, I know all too well how hard it is NOT to lose sight of the child you had such hopes for.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Bluemoon, post: 382109"] I'm agreeing that a call to the police is in order next time she becomes violent or threatens to harm herself or anyone else in the house. I completely understand your frustration and potential rage, but I fear it is going to take you places that will...let's just say that for all concerned, to call the police and have her placed in Juvie is probably a lessor evil. You can explain to her that this is not what you wanted, but that because of her behavior you have no choice anymore. I do hope that you don't call her Satanica or in any way let her know that you think of her this way. Oh, I totally get the feelings behind it, but I also know that if she feels she cannot be good, has no good in her, then she will likely become very, very, good at being bad. By no means am I saying that you are to blame for anything she is doing, but in the end, you want to know that you did not allow her illness to make you sick, too. Just as sick as she is....though you would be provoked by her, of course. Just don't forget, she is driven, too, by horrors in her head that we can hardly even imagine. As harrowing as it is to have to deal with her, it must be 100 times more so to BE her. She cannot get away from her own head. So, I agree that she MUST be stopped from destroying your family as well as herself, but it can be done with a compassionate heart just the same. Best wishes and please don't think that I am critisizing you, I know all too well how hard it is NOT to lose sight of the child you had such hopes for. [/QUOTE]
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