For those that don't know me, my son lives with us, will be 19 in one week, smokes pot, molly and acid ocassionally and would like for our peace of mind, for him to move out, soon. No specific thing, just tired of living with a pot head, unmotivated lazy ass kid that seems to be going nowhere and now that his college buddies are all coming home for the summer, a much larger pool to smoke, etc. with. I don't want to damage our relationship to the point that he cuts all ties when we tell him it's time to start living your life as a adult on your own. Please suggest positive ways to get this done. I know it won't go well regardless because he will just try to manipulate us with..." I didn't do anything" or "I've done everything you've asked, come home on time, don't smoke in the house, have a job (by a thread)....you get the drill. Still haven't told him he won't be using our cars anymore as he keeps getting picked up. Thanks in advance!