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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 675414" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Susie, that is a tough one for sure. I do know that after major surgeries peoples demeanor can change.</p><p></p><p>Your mom may be concerned that if she says anything it will cause more stress for him.</p><p></p><p>You may want to suggest to her to talk with his cardiologist and perhaps they can direct her to a support group.</p><p></p><p>Ultimately it has to be your mom's choice in how she deals with him. Of course when he behaves towards you in an unacceptable way you can tell him so. Do your best to say it in a calm matter of fact manner.</p><p></p><p>Sometimes, there is nothing you can say or do to curb the way someone else acts. My mother in law is a very negative and noisy person. My husband has told her before to try and not be so negative and noisy about other peoples business. My mother in law replied to him that she is not that way and can't believe he would say such a thing. If the person truly has blinders on they will never see how they truly are even when it's pointed out to them.</p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry for what you are going through.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 675414, member: 18516"] Susie, that is a tough one for sure. I do know that after major surgeries peoples demeanor can change. Your mom may be concerned that if she says anything it will cause more stress for him. You may want to suggest to her to talk with his cardiologist and perhaps they can direct her to a support group. Ultimately it has to be your mom's choice in how she deals with him. Of course when he behaves towards you in an unacceptable way you can tell him so. Do your best to say it in a calm matter of fact manner. Sometimes, there is nothing you can say or do to curb the way someone else acts. My mother in law is a very negative and noisy person. My husband has told her before to try and not be so negative and noisy about other peoples business. My mother in law replied to him that she is not that way and can't believe he would say such a thing. If the person truly has blinders on they will never see how they truly are even when it's pointed out to them. I'm so sorry for what you are going through. ((HUGS)) [/QUOTE]
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