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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 204698" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>I would talk to your daughter in private. Let her know that you can not interfere but are there to help and support her when she is ready for help. Let her know you feel uncomfortable about how her husband is treating her and that no one should be disrespected as he is disrepecting her. Ask her how she feels. If she makes excuses (he is stressed, he is tired, etc.) than she is not ready for the help. If she says that she also hates it but does not know what to do, then you can offer some suggestions. Let her know it is up to her to put an end to how he treats her but that you are there to encourage and support.</p><p> </p><p>I hope your daughter can really see what is going on. Most of the time, the victim is so beaten down that the bully has convinced her that it is all her fault and she doesn't feel strong enough to change the situation. She has to get her self esteem back and realize this is his problem to solve and she does not have to take it.</p><p> </p><p>Good luck!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 204698, member: 5096"] I would talk to your daughter in private. Let her know that you can not interfere but are there to help and support her when she is ready for help. Let her know you feel uncomfortable about how her husband is treating her and that no one should be disrespected as he is disrepecting her. Ask her how she feels. If she makes excuses (he is stressed, he is tired, etc.) than she is not ready for the help. If she says that she also hates it but does not know what to do, then you can offer some suggestions. Let her know it is up to her to put an end to how he treats her but that you are there to encourage and support. I hope your daughter can really see what is going on. Most of the time, the victim is so beaten down that the bully has convinced her that it is all her fault and she doesn't feel strong enough to change the situation. She has to get her self esteem back and realize this is his problem to solve and she does not have to take it. Good luck! [/QUOTE]
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