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<blockquote data-quote="lady" data-source="post: 101926" data-attributes="member: 4360"><p>Midwest Mom -thanks for the reply. Public private -whatever school is not an option -I am disgusted with them & doing quite well on my own. But i would not have wanted to say all of that originally. Bob reacted to them in the same way, & i would watch & pop in on his personal assistant several times as she became very frustrated with my son. It was a little scary. Also they did not give him the opportunties to develop communication like they did the other kids. They would have a picture schedule for the other kids, but not my son. I could accept that since he could not yet do as well with pictures. But when i told them how well the objects worked -they lied & said they were using them to facilitate communication when they were not. I walked in on them changing my boy's diaper with him being held down once -when i was trying to potty train him & strictly forbad that....It took me a LOOONG time to undo the multiple damages they did, & i will not send him back to that. When he was ready to go to the next clas he was being demoted instead of promoted -basically (to a more cognitively severe class). They told me they thought he was severely retarded, on multiple occasions i left that school weeping -although i would not admit that to them. They gave up on my son because they thought he was retarded. Every time i took him out of school for a summer to do my own work & therapy with him he went back with vast improvements -to the point that the staff praised me. But during the school year (winter) he would regress again. Although its good to know i have more rights than i thought. But i can not expect a teacher or a teacher's assistant to deal with the aggression & actually be productive -thats not realistic nor fair. Although i would like to shirk my resposibility sometimes. Like i said in my original post, no one has ever had an answer to this problem.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lady, post: 101926, member: 4360"] Midwest Mom -thanks for the reply. Public private -whatever school is not an option -I am disgusted with them & doing quite well on my own. But i would not have wanted to say all of that originally. Bob reacted to them in the same way, & i would watch & pop in on his personal assistant several times as she became very frustrated with my son. It was a little scary. Also they did not give him the opportunties to develop communication like they did the other kids. They would have a picture schedule for the other kids, but not my son. I could accept that since he could not yet do as well with pictures. But when i told them how well the objects worked -they lied & said they were using them to facilitate communication when they were not. I walked in on them changing my boy's diaper with him being held down once -when i was trying to potty train him & strictly forbad that....It took me a LOOONG time to undo the multiple damages they did, & i will not send him back to that. When he was ready to go to the next clas he was being demoted instead of promoted -basically (to a more cognitively severe class). They told me they thought he was severely retarded, on multiple occasions i left that school weeping -although i would not admit that to them. They gave up on my son because they thought he was retarded. Every time i took him out of school for a summer to do my own work & therapy with him he went back with vast improvements -to the point that the staff praised me. But during the school year (winter) he would regress again. Although its good to know i have more rights than i thought. But i can not expect a teacher or a teacher's assistant to deal with the aggression & actually be productive -thats not realistic nor fair. Although i would like to shirk my resposibility sometimes. Like i said in my original post, no one has ever had an answer to this problem. [/QUOTE]
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