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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 689863" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I agree with this.</p><p></p><p>It boils down to this:</p><p></p><p>Husband, <em>I wish I had asked you before</em> (and should have asked you) if you had objections to my reinstating the invitation to son.</p><p></p><p>Listen to what he has to say. If he maintains his ill feelings, I would honor his wishes. I would also encourage him to speak to son directly about his feelings towards son. I would leave it at that.</p><p></p><p>To son (if husband says no go): Son, I am proud of you, your progress and your attitude. My preference is that husband and I go ourselves on the trip. I would not say, <em>husband does not want you to go</em>. Because that would be perpetuating triangulation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 689863, member: 18958"] I agree with this. It boils down to this: Husband, [I]I wish I had asked you before[/I] (and should have asked you) if you had objections to my reinstating the invitation to son. Listen to what he has to say. If he maintains his ill feelings, I would honor his wishes. I would also encourage him to speak to son directly about his feelings towards son. I would leave it at that. To son (if husband says no go): Son, I am proud of you, your progress and your attitude. My preference is that husband and I go ourselves on the trip. I would not say, [I]husband does not want you to go[/I]. Because that would be perpetuating triangulation. [/QUOTE]
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