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<blockquote data-quote="Sister's Keeper" data-source="post: 689969" data-attributes="member: 20051"><p>Sorry, I still disagree. This is a family tip, the entire family was invited, and he was invited and invited again. I think it would be mean and hurtful at this point to tell him "never mind, you aren't invited because you effed up, we just want to spend time with our other children." Who are, by the way, full biological children.</p><p></p><p>If this were just WSM and her husband, I would say, tell him you and your husband need time away, but this is the whole, extended family, and it is a one in a lifetime thing. As far as I can tell there were no conditions attached to the invitation.</p><p></p><p>WSM asked him, again, after he got out of rehab to go, and he wants to go now. I cannot see rescinding that invitation, and, personally, I think it is terrible for a husband to ask a mother to choose between him and her child.</p><p></p><p>I also get the idea WSM WANTS her son to go, but is stuck now because her husband has out her in the position where she has to chose between hurting her son (and he will be hurt) and angering him.</p><p></p><p>It's a terrible place to be.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sister's Keeper, post: 689969, member: 20051"] Sorry, I still disagree. This is a family tip, the entire family was invited, and he was invited and invited again. I think it would be mean and hurtful at this point to tell him "never mind, you aren't invited because you effed up, we just want to spend time with our other children." Who are, by the way, full biological children. If this were just WSM and her husband, I would say, tell him you and your husband need time away, but this is the whole, extended family, and it is a one in a lifetime thing. As far as I can tell there were no conditions attached to the invitation. WSM asked him, again, after he got out of rehab to go, and he wants to go now. I cannot see rescinding that invitation, and, personally, I think it is terrible for a husband to ask a mother to choose between him and her child. I also get the idea WSM WANTS her son to go, but is stuck now because her husband has out her in the position where she has to chose between hurting her son (and he will be hurt) and angering him. It's a terrible place to be. [/QUOTE]
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