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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 690200" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>WSM:</p><p></p><p>I have been away for a few days. Wow so many theories on this thread.</p><p></p><p>I know your decision is made but a big concern for me (and I don't think it was mentioned) would have been having your son around on your trip if you and your husband drink. I know we drink on vacations but I would not be comfortable about doing that around my son who is also newly sober. Yet to me being on vacation means it's okay to have some cocktails being that we are only social drinkers.</p><p></p><p>I am married to my difficult child's father. I also have an older son from my first marriage who has thankfully done all the right things. My husband is a good man but I honestly don't know how he would feel about all the things our son has done if he weren't HIS son. He also is not a "talker" but I think would try to be fair but I am like momma bear with my boys and we had some issues of him feeling I coddled my older son when we were first married but we all do what we do for our own reasons.</p><p></p><p>Good luck and hugs and do what is best for you. I agree with that! My husband and I went to family therapy when we were first married due to some issues with blending our families and this may be a good thing for you. It would be great to get your feelings out in the open with your husband.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 690200, member: 15032"] WSM: I have been away for a few days. Wow so many theories on this thread. I know your decision is made but a big concern for me (and I don't think it was mentioned) would have been having your son around on your trip if you and your husband drink. I know we drink on vacations but I would not be comfortable about doing that around my son who is also newly sober. Yet to me being on vacation means it's okay to have some cocktails being that we are only social drinkers. I am married to my difficult child's father. I also have an older son from my first marriage who has thankfully done all the right things. My husband is a good man but I honestly don't know how he would feel about all the things our son has done if he weren't HIS son. He also is not a "talker" but I think would try to be fair but I am like momma bear with my boys and we had some issues of him feeling I coddled my older son when we were first married but we all do what we do for our own reasons. Good luck and hugs and do what is best for you. I agree with that! My husband and I went to family therapy when we were first married due to some issues with blending our families and this may be a good thing for you. It would be great to get your feelings out in the open with your husband. [/QUOTE]
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