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<blockquote data-quote="Liahona" data-source="post: 551523"><p>difficult child 1's rages started when we lost the supervised visitation (age 4). He remembers abuse X did to me when he was 4 months old. X still has a lot of control over difficult child 1 and will hurt him to hurt me. Ect.... </p><p></p><p>This is what I have done: I got difficult child 1 into therapy. I did the parenting books, the behavior charts, I talked to the teachers. I homeschooled. I never talked bad about X to difficult child 1. I put difficult child 1 on medications. I listened a lot about stuff that would make my blood boil but I was calm on the out side. Like Lisa said, I was very consistent. I am not the fun one. I am the one he can count on though. I have quietly tried to undo X's brainwashing (without talking bad about X). </p><p></p><p>Out of all of that what has helped the most has been the consistency.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Liahona, post: 551523"] difficult child 1's rages started when we lost the supervised visitation (age 4). He remembers abuse X did to me when he was 4 months old. X still has a lot of control over difficult child 1 and will hurt him to hurt me. Ect.... This is what I have done: I got difficult child 1 into therapy. I did the parenting books, the behavior charts, I talked to the teachers. I homeschooled. I never talked bad about X to difficult child 1. I put difficult child 1 on medications. I listened a lot about stuff that would make my blood boil but I was calm on the out side. Like Lisa said, I was very consistent. I am not the fun one. I am the one he can count on though. I have quietly tried to undo X's brainwashing (without talking bad about X). Out of all of that what has helped the most has been the consistency. [/QUOTE]
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