One of my cousins passed away Friday night. I hadn't seen her in about 20 years, but still, she was family and I adore her Mom (my aunt). She died because she was partially disabled and couldn't walk well and was on an oxygen tank, in her bedroom on the 2nd floor of a townhouse when apparently there was an electrical short. Her bro. was on the phone with her when he heard her scream and the phone went dead. He called police to go check, they found a fire and called firemen. Firemen went in and found her dead at the top of the stairway. That is more information then anyone needed, I guess. My question is, since her Mom asked for flowers because she was concerned that not many people would send flowers for the funeral and grave site, what kind and color should I order for this? My aunt (obviously a different aunt) passed away last year- I had food delivered to the home. My aunt (this cousin's Mom) didn't want food and asked that nothing be sent that she needed to take home as a reminder. (She is kind of in shock.) Before that, when my grandmother passed away, I sent white lillies. Suggestions? Let's just say, my cousin was no saint, but, she wasn't so bad either. Never married, no children, just did her own thing. Very close to her Mom and bro. PS I just need to order them some time tonight- I can do it online.