My daughter is almost 22 .We've never had the best relationship.Whenever I tried to give her good advice she would always do the opposite of whatever I said.probably just to prove me wrong which didn't happen often.She's been with her current boyfriend almost 2 years and living with him the past 4 months.Needless to say I don't like him.He is disrespectful to me, has been in recent trouble with alcohol and drug abuse.he's 23 with many psychological problems.When she was living at home he would sneak in her room stay night leave before anyone woke up til he was caught.I can accept him;never will.She's been in legal trouble w pot since being with him as well.She's beautiful straight A student looking to b xray tech.I worry he will ruin that for her and I tried to talk to her about it.says she hates me and loves him.I try to call text or reach out to her and she won't acknowledge me or meet me for a cup of coffee.she is very disrespectful and swears it me calling me names constantly.Her dad and I still pay her school car insurance and cell phone bill.still talks to daddy and tells him she hates me and he's okay with this because he hates me too and our relationship is over because of the problems with my daughter.I'm crushed and cry constantly.this is not the relationship I wanted.She is beautiful and can have any wonderful guy she wants but she chose a loser pothead. the names she's allowed him to call me and the way she's allowed him to speak to me says it all I guess.she made the choice to be with him and keep me out of her life.her boyfriend has alienated her from all of her friends and family this is how he controls her.I see what he is doing but she cant. what do I do to get my daughter back? I've lost her in more ways than one. I don't even recognize her anymore. she's as cold as ice. Any advice please. I'm devastated.