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<blockquote data-quote="Lioness" data-source="post: 661812" data-attributes="member: 18827"><p>I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. ItsT be even harder for you not having contact with your daughter after she gave you such hope albeit fleetingly. Is she referring to her teenage years as being toxic? How was your relationship with her like then? Was she rebellious? I'm asking because my daughter and I had a fraught time when she was a teenager. She was my eldest rude, slamming doors, swearing at me, hating me really. It all started when her Dad left after he had an affair. She always blamed me. I reacted by trying to talk to her to help her and I get on better. Sometimes I had to ground her as I'm not a hitter more of a shouter. This year I have had a terrible time with her and she said that I was a terrible mother toxic and mistreating her when a teenager. She has a two year old daughter whom I adore and close to. My daughter had decided that she no longer wants me in her life. I'am devastated. I even tried to go to a family therapist with her. She refused to go a second time. I do believe that we could work things through if we continued. My advice to you is similar to Scent of Cedar who has sound advice. Write to her ask her if she would go see a family therapist with you. Perhaps you can work through things with her. I know exactly how you feel I have a room full of toys, a cot, a stroller, garden toys and my heart breaks when I go in my grand daughters room. Please try to write and see if she is willing to try. We are all here for you. Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lioness, post: 661812, member: 18827"] I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. ItsT be even harder for you not having contact with your daughter after she gave you such hope albeit fleetingly. Is she referring to her teenage years as being toxic? How was your relationship with her like then? Was she rebellious? I'm asking because my daughter and I had a fraught time when she was a teenager. She was my eldest rude, slamming doors, swearing at me, hating me really. It all started when her Dad left after he had an affair. She always blamed me. I reacted by trying to talk to her to help her and I get on better. Sometimes I had to ground her as I'm not a hitter more of a shouter. This year I have had a terrible time with her and she said that I was a terrible mother toxic and mistreating her when a teenager. She has a two year old daughter whom I adore and close to. My daughter had decided that she no longer wants me in her life. I'am devastated. I even tried to go to a family therapist with her. She refused to go a second time. I do believe that we could work things through if we continued. My advice to you is similar to Scent of Cedar who has sound advice. Write to her ask her if she would go see a family therapist with you. Perhaps you can work through things with her. I know exactly how you feel I have a room full of toys, a cot, a stroller, garden toys and my heart breaks when I go in my grand daughters room. Please try to write and see if she is willing to try. We are all here for you. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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