I need all the advice I can get right now? I am new to the board... Cliff notes version: Mt step son used to live with us until the stealing and lying got so bad that my husband could not take us ( me & difficult child)fighting anymore. My difficult child told all that if he could live with his Bio-mom again he would stop..I did not buy it but it was at that point out of my hands. We have tried over the last two years: Couseling, medications. (pediatrician. thought he might me ADD/ADHD.) Did not work...Nothing affects this kids and I mean nothing!! I have been researching ODD and other things and he fits the bill perfectly. I today found another item missing from my house and things that he stole out of our room again hidden in his dresser. husband is stumped and I am just all shook up. I cannot take any more of this!! Peds. told me today that if I can get difficult child to pony up to the missing item I should take him to the Police Station and press charges. I am at wits end, I just stood there today not believing that the other shoe has dropped again! I tried to call Bio-mom and of course she has deceided today that she does not feel like talking to me. She thinks it's just his age...I keep telling her no it's not!!! If anyone can give advice or help?? There are so many other things he has done like threating to poison me to my daughter,etc. etc. What do I do???