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<blockquote data-quote="witzend" data-source="post: 83999" data-attributes="member: 99"><p>I would say that you have some good advice so far. Hopefully the contract will recognize that things aren't going to be perfect from the beginning, and have differing levels of consequences for different "infractions". For example, getting high in the bedroom should be handled differently than not cleaning up after making a snack.</p><p></p><p>From experience, I would say to be careful to not make any deals you can't live with. I you are (or are not) going to kick difficult child out for something, don't put it in the contract if you can't live with it. I hope that you will work with the therapists now and after difficult child comes home, and that you are comfortable with them.</p><p></p><p>I hope that this will be the beginning of a new and better relationship with your difficult child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="witzend, post: 83999, member: 99"] I would say that you have some good advice so far. Hopefully the contract will recognize that things aren't going to be perfect from the beginning, and have differing levels of consequences for different "infractions". For example, getting high in the bedroom should be handled differently than not cleaning up after making a snack. From experience, I would say to be careful to not make any deals you can't live with. I you are (or are not) going to kick difficult child out for something, don't put it in the contract if you can't live with it. I hope that you will work with the therapists now and after difficult child comes home, and that you are comfortable with them. I hope that this will be the beginning of a new and better relationship with your difficult child. [/QUOTE]
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