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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 509641" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Fortunately I have not dealt with this problem. My heart goes out to you because I am positive you are beyond concerned and evidently with good reason.</p><p></p><p>If this behavior is fairly new it may be that she has been victimized at college. It would be typical to blame herself if..for instance..she got drunk and something unacceptable happened. There are alot of unexpected things that happen on college campuses. Although I hope she will agree to professional intervention if she will not perhaps (remember I am no expert but have had four kids who went away to school) you could give her a vaguely worded reassurance. (?? Honey I'm so sorry you are not willing to talk with a professional. It seems like your unhappiness could be the result of something you regret that happened at college. Sadly alot of odd things happen to girls in college and often they blame themselves. If you've had a trauma it will help to share it with someone you trust. Professionals are best but I am your Mom I am willing to list and I would never ever judge you.)</p><p></p><p>I will say a prayer for you and your daughter. If she can unbottle those emotions it could be the first step toward regaining her self confidence. Hugs DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 509641, member: 35"] Fortunately I have not dealt with this problem. My heart goes out to you because I am positive you are beyond concerned and evidently with good reason. If this behavior is fairly new it may be that she has been victimized at college. It would be typical to blame herself if..for instance..she got drunk and something unacceptable happened. There are alot of unexpected things that happen on college campuses. Although I hope she will agree to professional intervention if she will not perhaps (remember I am no expert but have had four kids who went away to school) you could give her a vaguely worded reassurance. (?? Honey I'm so sorry you are not willing to talk with a professional. It seems like your unhappiness could be the result of something you regret that happened at college. Sadly alot of odd things happen to girls in college and often they blame themselves. If you've had a trauma it will help to share it with someone you trust. Professionals are best but I am your Mom I am willing to list and I would never ever judge you.) I will say a prayer for you and your daughter. If she can unbottle those emotions it could be the first step toward regaining her self confidence. Hugs DDD [/QUOTE]
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