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<blockquote data-quote="Schwt1" data-source="post: 509643" data-attributes="member: 14006"><p>Sorry I didn't read all the stuff I was supposed to upon joining... I was desperate (correction AM desperate) and I don't know any abbreviations or anything.. and I don't even know how to get back to 'terms and conditions'.. will figure it out eventually. I was smart enough to bookmark so I don't LOSE you guys. </p><p></p><p>*sigh* okay where to begin.... I've never taken her for any kind of counseling or anything in the past. Oh some other background, single Mom most of her life. Left her Dad when she was just 4yo. Moved 1000 miles away from family. There was a father figure in her life, her brother's father... who then wasn't probably a good role model, but now divorced and he's grown up alot and I think she does have a bond with him now, then there was the last man I spent 5 yrs in an unemotional relationship with, so no 'family' connection there for any of us. </p><p></p><p>Great student, Drum Major of her HS band for 2 yrs, high ACT scores. Got in trouble at school only once (middle school) for defending someone else that was being picked on. Had a teenage attitude for several years, where at times I wanted to strangle her. Typical, I suppose.</p><p></p><p>Her emotional issues really seemed to show 3-4 yrs ago? (time goes so fast I don't know how 'off' I am with this) Early in HS, she stood up to a 'friend' from one circle that wasn't being nice to a friend from another circle. This 'friend' in turn turned on her, bringing others with her. HS girl BS that happens unfortunately. This is when BETRAYAL and NON TRUST issues started becoming a factor. </p><p></p><p>At 16 she began her first relationship. He had issues, and I tried my best to be in the know, but cautious about pushing her away from me and closer to him. After 1yr & 1/2 she finally rid herself of him. When she really broke down 3 or so wks ago she let me know how truly abusive this relationship was. Following this great breakup she leaned heavily on another friend, who she ended up developing feelings for, somewhat mutual for a short time, but over the last several weeks he's been distancing himself. Honestly I think it's from her fragile mental state, which just compounds everything.</p><p></p><p>I feel like I'm all over the place with trying to give you background.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Schwt1, post: 509643, member: 14006"] Sorry I didn't read all the stuff I was supposed to upon joining... I was desperate (correction AM desperate) and I don't know any abbreviations or anything.. and I don't even know how to get back to 'terms and conditions'.. will figure it out eventually. I was smart enough to bookmark so I don't LOSE you guys. *sigh* okay where to begin.... I've never taken her for any kind of counseling or anything in the past. Oh some other background, single Mom most of her life. Left her Dad when she was just 4yo. Moved 1000 miles away from family. There was a father figure in her life, her brother's father... who then wasn't probably a good role model, but now divorced and he's grown up alot and I think she does have a bond with him now, then there was the last man I spent 5 yrs in an unemotional relationship with, so no 'family' connection there for any of us. Great student, Drum Major of her HS band for 2 yrs, high ACT scores. Got in trouble at school only once (middle school) for defending someone else that was being picked on. Had a teenage attitude for several years, where at times I wanted to strangle her. Typical, I suppose. Her emotional issues really seemed to show 3-4 yrs ago? (time goes so fast I don't know how 'off' I am with this) Early in HS, she stood up to a 'friend' from one circle that wasn't being nice to a friend from another circle. This 'friend' in turn turned on her, bringing others with her. HS girl BS that happens unfortunately. This is when BETRAYAL and NON TRUST issues started becoming a factor. At 16 she began her first relationship. He had issues, and I tried my best to be in the know, but cautious about pushing her away from me and closer to him. After 1yr & 1/2 she finally rid herself of him. When she really broke down 3 or so wks ago she let me know how truly abusive this relationship was. Following this great breakup she leaned heavily on another friend, who she ended up developing feelings for, somewhat mutual for a short time, but over the last several weeks he's been distancing himself. Honestly I think it's from her fragile mental state, which just compounds everything. I feel like I'm all over the place with trying to give you background. [/QUOTE]
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