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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 510447"><p>I didn't see your recent post, and just finished typing that these threats are serious!</p><p></p><p>I am very glad that she got to a hospital for treatment!</p><p></p><p>You asked...what you can do for yourself? That is a question we ask ourselves here A LOT! It is a hard thing to process, but the best thing you can do for yourself is to detach from the drama involved with all of it. Let most, if not all of it, GO. It is sometimes (especially at the beginning) impossible to understand. But, you must preserve your health and happiness. You can help her (speak with doctors, fill out paperwork, etc.) but at the same time refuse to allow the frustration, stress and loss that comes with all of this to get the better of you. True, it is painful, unfair, heart wrenching and frightening. But, honey, take it from me...you have little if ANY control in any of this. This is her battle and she has to go through it. Eat well, exercise if you can, take your vitamins, read uplifting literature, tap into your spiritual faith and turn it over to your Higher Power and keep a good thought that down the road your daughter will indeed find her way again. If the pain gets too great, consider counseling for yourself. A good counselor can help you get through this difficulty.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 510447"] I didn't see your recent post, and just finished typing that these threats are serious! I am very glad that she got to a hospital for treatment! You asked...what you can do for yourself? That is a question we ask ourselves here A LOT! It is a hard thing to process, but the best thing you can do for yourself is to detach from the drama involved with all of it. Let most, if not all of it, GO. It is sometimes (especially at the beginning) impossible to understand. But, you must preserve your health and happiness. You can help her (speak with doctors, fill out paperwork, etc.) but at the same time refuse to allow the frustration, stress and loss that comes with all of this to get the better of you. True, it is painful, unfair, heart wrenching and frightening. But, honey, take it from me...you have little if ANY control in any of this. This is her battle and she has to go through it. Eat well, exercise if you can, take your vitamins, read uplifting literature, tap into your spiritual faith and turn it over to your Higher Power and keep a good thought that down the road your daughter will indeed find her way again. If the pain gets too great, consider counseling for yourself. A good counselor can help you get through this difficulty. [/QUOTE]
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