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<blockquote data-quote="Kali" data-source="post: 59232" data-attributes="member: 2373"><p>Unfortunatly with-out a CO counseling isn't going to happen and without money for a lawyer (I still owe the last one $20K) I can't get a CO. Ex is unwilling to recognize she is having such issues.</p><p></p><p>What I really need is to figure out how to help her the best I can on my own.</p><p></p><p>I know she's acting out on me because she knows I will love her and be there for her no matter what. I also know that perhaps I had on rose colored glasses with her original diagnosis, maybe I was wrong maybe she is ODD like the original doctor said.</p><p></p><p>She excessively argues (as noted somewhat above) with all adults, especially females (but not so much with her father, I'm not sure why either).</p><p></p><p>She refuses to accept rules or directions for anything she doesn't want to do it then turns into a HUGE struggle. Her birthday party was a HUGE embaressment and it was just family there.</p><p></p><p>She often is annoyed, as a matter of fact I can't think of very many times she isn't annoyed by something (especially lately)</p><p></p><p>NOTHING is EVER her fault</p><p></p><p>Anger seems to be her forte lately, but it is often her choice of emotions with everything. When you'd think she'd be sad she gets angry, any intense emotion tends to bring out anger.</p><p></p><p>She refuses to see when she is wrong if she is "getting back" at someone. It is always their fault and they deserved it. For instance she will still bring up an incident from 2 years ago where she was almost suspended from school for an altercation (in 2nd grade), she often says "remember that time when..." and then justifies it still. Why? Why after the punishment was doled out, the issue has been dead, and over with for 2 years does she still have to justify her "rightness" and why can't I get her to see she was wrong?</p><p></p><p>Her mouthiness never ever ends, you can say the slightest thing and mean it nice and all of a sudden it is attitude and defiance. I want to smack her all.the.time. I want to throw my hands up latley and give her to her dad and say here, she's yours call me when she is ready to be nice. I woulnd't do that but man I feel like it latley.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kali, post: 59232, member: 2373"] Unfortunatly with-out a CO counseling isn't going to happen and without money for a lawyer (I still owe the last one $20K) I can't get a CO. Ex is unwilling to recognize she is having such issues. What I really need is to figure out how to help her the best I can on my own. I know she's acting out on me because she knows I will love her and be there for her no matter what. I also know that perhaps I had on rose colored glasses with her original diagnosis, maybe I was wrong maybe she is ODD like the original doctor said. She excessively argues (as noted somewhat above) with all adults, especially females (but not so much with her father, I'm not sure why either). She refuses to accept rules or directions for anything she doesn't want to do it then turns into a HUGE struggle. Her birthday party was a HUGE embaressment and it was just family there. She often is annoyed, as a matter of fact I can't think of very many times she isn't annoyed by something (especially lately) NOTHING is EVER her fault Anger seems to be her forte lately, but it is often her choice of emotions with everything. When you'd think she'd be sad she gets angry, any intense emotion tends to bring out anger. She refuses to see when she is wrong if she is "getting back" at someone. It is always their fault and they deserved it. For instance she will still bring up an incident from 2 years ago where she was almost suspended from school for an altercation (in 2nd grade), she often says "remember that time when..." and then justifies it still. Why? Why after the punishment was doled out, the issue has been dead, and over with for 2 years does she still have to justify her "rightness" and why can't I get her to see she was wrong? Her mouthiness never ever ends, you can say the slightest thing and mean it nice and all of a sudden it is attitude and defiance. I want to smack her all.the.time. I want to throw my hands up latley and give her to her dad and say here, she's yours call me when she is ready to be nice. I woulnd't do that but man I feel like it latley. [/QUOTE]
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