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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 192522" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>I agree with Andy's note. I also agree that there is no need to say what you will both be doing. Andy's note leaves plenty of room for EX to save face if she WAS totally innocent (or even if she wasn't) and also doesn't blame anyone - misunderstandings can happen. Whatever you may privately believe shouldn't be put into the email.</p><p></p><p>If this is easy child's manipulations, then she has been caught out on it. If it was just a misunderstanding, then again - no blame.</p><p></p><p>If easy child WAS trying to be manipulative, you should still be able to talk to her (easy child) and let her know that you WERE planning on taking her to some games anyway, there was no need for any subterfuge (if indeed there was any). But if easy child was trying to be sneaky, she needs to know that this causes more problems between you all which, frankly, is more likely to curtail her activities rather than give her more freedoms.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 192522, member: 1991"] I agree with Andy's note. I also agree that there is no need to say what you will both be doing. Andy's note leaves plenty of room for EX to save face if she WAS totally innocent (or even if she wasn't) and also doesn't blame anyone - misunderstandings can happen. Whatever you may privately believe shouldn't be put into the email. If this is easy child's manipulations, then she has been caught out on it. If it was just a misunderstanding, then again - no blame. If easy child WAS trying to be manipulative, you should still be able to talk to her (easy child) and let her know that you WERE planning on taking her to some games anyway, there was no need for any subterfuge (if indeed there was any). But if easy child was trying to be sneaky, she needs to know that this causes more problems between you all which, frankly, is more likely to curtail her activities rather than give her more freedoms. Marg [/QUOTE]
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