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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 610824"><p>Ok, you all said from the beginning to have my daughter tested possibility a form of Autism, my son too. But I just dont see that in my son.. he is being tested for everything anyway slowly but surely.His teacher ended up not giving all 0's for his missing assignments and gave multiple 50's which helped him. He has no F's-Has One A, B, C's and D's! Im happier! She said over the weeks he is trying harder in the classroom and this week esp. Well, he been on Adderall Xr this week... some of last! Sooo, guess it is helping <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> She said they will all continue to work with him, yes they WILL follow any IEPS or anything to help!!!She thinking he just lazy now and it was because he heard my dad say we might pull him out to go to public. She keeps saying how bright he is!!!! I don't know, either way, something and everything is starting to work for school! Still anger issues tho at home.</p><p></p><p><u><strong><em>Ok, my daughter... :</em></strong>:<strong>13 years old now( Im making new Sig but no Idea what to put yet!!!)</strong></u></p><p>She is still sooooo quite at school</p><p> Barely talks and participates but loves speaking in front of the Church is proud when she does. </p><p>Does not run around like other 8th graders.. just reading, playing games, on her phone texting...</p><p>Doesnt like her hair in pony tails, just flat and long for many years. </p><p>Bathing she wants to every other day<em> if </em>I get on her and she could go longer- But honestly doesnt wash right( dirt still there)</p><p>Even when warm, wears her sweatshirt at school</p><p>Doesnt smile there OR even most stores... but is more relaxed at stores...</p><p>Everyone is so poud of her grades, her accomplishments but still extremely worried on her lack of communication and smile.</p><p>She does have scabs on her cuz she scratched bug bites, picks pimples/scrapes..maybe thats why at school she dresses covered up..home/stores its shorts and tshirts</p><p>Doesnt mind crowds, even if wall to wall people, but just doesnt want to speak</p><p>Wants dress up halloween yearly but never wears full costume or hides it under clothes...never liked makeup..Yes wears fake tatoos</p><p>When home is more outgoing, does play outside with neighbors kids,, does actually smile more( very little but more) and does actually talk more esp to me, my dad and when fights with her brother.. well you know it!!! Loud and fights back!!!</p><p>Cant compare her to anyone or anything. takes severe offense and NEVER forgets it</p><p>If someone offends her.. thats it for life!!! She doesnt want anything more to do with them.. kids or adults</p><p>Tramatic Dentist event holding her down at a year old and when they gave her a crown.. no other issues, same caregivers always.. no abuse</p><p>Hates taking medications even for allergies... really fights us</p><p>Doesnt <em>seem </em>depressed, still doing same things for years, Im keeping close eye in case</p><p>Most punishments for her was/is raising our voice, she'd cry and end of situation </p><p>Doesnt really get into trouble just occasional slipping on H.W and lots fighting back w brother</p><p>Says she plans on High School and College just doesnt know where or what yet!!!Plans on License...!!!</p><p></p><p></p><p><em><strong>***</strong>born 1 week early? Suctioned out stayed in ICU 9 days for Hematoma but didnt leak into her brain. Went back cat scan at 4 months old and Hematoma completely gone. Walking just a little behind.. month or two?, smiling, playing, speech , hugging us, kissing us -us kisses to her etc all normal.. speech improved when she played with other kids of course.. Did have eye infection, a couple ear infections as a baby/toddler. Acid reflux and Colic. Tantrums yes, not nearly as bad as my son ( I thought hers were bad boy was I wrong) but she was completely spoiled!!!! She was "shy" but thats it.. Pre-K "shy" but played great with kids!! Kinder is when she started turning more quite and by 1st no more kisses, hardly hugs etc. I know she has emotions cuz when I was crying she came to me and barley puts her arm around me and says it will be ok. Thats rare tho. </em></p><p><em></em></p><p>How can I get her tested because she is sooo sensitive being accused of having something wrong with her. I said ooo what fun her brother had with EEG I like to see the waves we should all go!!! She seemed to get upset and have anxiety!!! She says she doesnt want or need to talk to anyone she is quite thats all. <em>Do I want something to be wrong her she asks...</em></p><p></p><p>Any Ideas? I know I told her we all go to family Counseling to learn how to get along better and techniques for my son and she said shes not going!!! I was going to get her checked by that person without her realizing but shes gonna find out that its for her too...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 610824"] Ok, you all said from the beginning to have my daughter tested possibility a form of Autism, my son too. But I just dont see that in my son.. he is being tested for everything anyway slowly but surely.His teacher ended up not giving all 0's for his missing assignments and gave multiple 50's which helped him. He has no F's-Has One A, B, C's and D's! Im happier! She said over the weeks he is trying harder in the classroom and this week esp. Well, he been on Adderall Xr this week... some of last! Sooo, guess it is helping :) She said they will all continue to work with him, yes they WILL follow any IEPS or anything to help!!!She thinking he just lazy now and it was because he heard my dad say we might pull him out to go to public. She keeps saying how bright he is!!!! I don't know, either way, something and everything is starting to work for school! Still anger issues tho at home. [U][B][I]Ok, my daughter... :[/I][/B]:[B]13 years old now( Im making new Sig but no Idea what to put yet!!!)[/B][/U] She is still sooooo quite at school Barely talks and participates but loves speaking in front of the Church is proud when she does. Does not run around like other 8th graders.. just reading, playing games, on her phone texting... Doesnt like her hair in pony tails, just flat and long for many years. Bathing she wants to every other day[I] if [/I]I get on her and she could go longer- But honestly doesnt wash right( dirt still there) Even when warm, wears her sweatshirt at school Doesnt smile there OR even most stores... but is more relaxed at stores... Everyone is so poud of her grades, her accomplishments but still extremely worried on her lack of communication and smile. She does have scabs on her cuz she scratched bug bites, picks pimples/scrapes..maybe thats why at school she dresses covered up..home/stores its shorts and tshirts Doesnt mind crowds, even if wall to wall people, but just doesnt want to speak Wants dress up halloween yearly but never wears full costume or hides it under clothes...never liked makeup..Yes wears fake tatoos When home is more outgoing, does play outside with neighbors kids,, does actually smile more( very little but more) and does actually talk more esp to me, my dad and when fights with her brother.. well you know it!!! Loud and fights back!!! Cant compare her to anyone or anything. takes severe offense and NEVER forgets it If someone offends her.. thats it for life!!! She doesnt want anything more to do with them.. kids or adults Tramatic Dentist event holding her down at a year old and when they gave her a crown.. no other issues, same caregivers always.. no abuse Hates taking medications even for allergies... really fights us Doesnt [I]seem [/I]depressed, still doing same things for years, Im keeping close eye in case Most punishments for her was/is raising our voice, she'd cry and end of situation Doesnt really get into trouble just occasional slipping on H.W and lots fighting back w brother Says she plans on High School and College just doesnt know where or what yet!!!Plans on License...!!! [I][B]***[/B]born 1 week early? Suctioned out stayed in ICU 9 days for Hematoma but didnt leak into her brain. Went back cat scan at 4 months old and Hematoma completely gone. Walking just a little behind.. month or two?, smiling, playing, speech , hugging us, kissing us -us kisses to her etc all normal.. speech improved when she played with other kids of course.. Did have eye infection, a couple ear infections as a baby/toddler. Acid reflux and Colic. Tantrums yes, not nearly as bad as my son ( I thought hers were bad boy was I wrong) but she was completely spoiled!!!! She was "shy" but thats it.. Pre-K "shy" but played great with kids!! Kinder is when she started turning more quite and by 1st no more kisses, hardly hugs etc. I know she has emotions cuz when I was crying she came to me and barley puts her arm around me and says it will be ok. Thats rare tho. [/I] How can I get her tested because she is sooo sensitive being accused of having something wrong with her. I said ooo what fun her brother had with EEG I like to see the waves we should all go!!! She seemed to get upset and have anxiety!!! She says she doesnt want or need to talk to anyone she is quite thats all. [I]Do I want something to be wrong her she asks...[/I] Any Ideas? I know I told her we all go to family Counseling to learn how to get along better and techniques for my son and she said shes not going!!! I was going to get her checked by that person without her realizing but shes gonna find out that its for her too... [/QUOTE]
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