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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 420669"><p>I don't totally understand the motivation for wanting him back in your house. If he is in your area, if you want to, you can provide him information for services so that he can help himself.</p><p>I DO understand why you posted here. It is clear. You want us to guide you out. You know in your heart it ain't such a good idea to have him back in your home. </p><p>I'm a believer in keeping the door open in terms of providing medical care...especially psychological care....substance abuse tx if you can afford it....and all this if they are willing to go.</p><p>But at 21....that's about it.</p><p>Let them know that you love them and are hoping for the best. Be calm and respectful. Caring...but draw the line and draw in clear. Set clear boundaries and returning back to your home is not a clear boundary. You know it.</p><p>Move forward. That is YOU move forward. Let him find his way, with very little to no help from you. It is his journey...not yours.</p><p>Sending good thoughts.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 420669"] I don't totally understand the motivation for wanting him back in your house. If he is in your area, if you want to, you can provide him information for services so that he can help himself. I DO understand why you posted here. It is clear. You want us to guide you out. You know in your heart it ain't such a good idea to have him back in your home. I'm a believer in keeping the door open in terms of providing medical care...especially psychological care....substance abuse tx if you can afford it....and all this if they are willing to go. But at 21....that's about it. Let them know that you love them and are hoping for the best. Be calm and respectful. Caring...but draw the line and draw in clear. Set clear boundaries and returning back to your home is not a clear boundary. You know it. Move forward. That is YOU move forward. Let him find his way, with very little to no help from you. It is his journey...not yours. Sending good thoughts. [/QUOTE]
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