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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 420864" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>slsh, </p><p> </p><p>What if? There were one or two other boys that thank you was friends with? I talked to Dude this morning about thank you. Because as you know he's spent many years in Residential Treatment Center (RTC) too, and he is also incapable of living alone too. He says the silence - he can't deal with being in quiet, he needs the noise like was in Residential Treatment Center (RTC), but then complains about the noise. Then he laughed and said "I guess I just can't be happy either way Momma." But he wondered if thank you could do like he did and find a couple of good roommates and maybe split the cost of stuff? Dude and thank you do not know each other, but when he got to FL he did gravitate towards the kids that were (and I don't even believe I am saying this) the ones that I would rather he not hang around (isn't that sad? I mean I love all kids- but these guys were so bad, bad, bad into drugs, needles, alcohol) and here was Dude - right in the middle -trying to talk to them, and finally on his own just walked away from them. He felt bad too, but he said he couldn't help them, felt guilty - it was really a tough time for him. Then he started to find friends that were into the same interests he had - and gravitated towards them. My heart stopped worrying so much, and while we both still felt for the other kids, and he would still help them if he could? he wasn't 'helping' them- I saw tough live, but not enabling, and I didn't see - ''buddies'' he was being a real friend. He said it broke his heart, but my point is the ones that he had good times and fun with that he didn't get into trouble with? He's sharing a house with now. THEIR parents are elated. </p><p> </p><p>Maybe if thank you has buddies like that he knows you can do something along those lines? </p><p> </p><p>Just a suggestion from thank you's other triplet. </p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 420864, member: 4964"] slsh, What if? There were one or two other boys that thank you was friends with? I talked to Dude this morning about thank you. Because as you know he's spent many years in Residential Treatment Center (RTC) too, and he is also incapable of living alone too. He says the silence - he can't deal with being in quiet, he needs the noise like was in Residential Treatment Center (RTC), but then complains about the noise. Then he laughed and said "I guess I just can't be happy either way Momma." But he wondered if thank you could do like he did and find a couple of good roommates and maybe split the cost of stuff? Dude and thank you do not know each other, but when he got to FL he did gravitate towards the kids that were (and I don't even believe I am saying this) the ones that I would rather he not hang around (isn't that sad? I mean I love all kids- but these guys were so bad, bad, bad into drugs, needles, alcohol) and here was Dude - right in the middle -trying to talk to them, and finally on his own just walked away from them. He felt bad too, but he said he couldn't help them, felt guilty - it was really a tough time for him. Then he started to find friends that were into the same interests he had - and gravitated towards them. My heart stopped worrying so much, and while we both still felt for the other kids, and he would still help them if he could? he wasn't 'helping' them- I saw tough live, but not enabling, and I didn't see - ''buddies'' he was being a real friend. He said it broke his heart, but my point is the ones that he had good times and fun with that he didn't get into trouble with? He's sharing a house with now. THEIR parents are elated. Maybe if thank you has buddies like that he knows you can do something along those lines? Just a suggestion from thank you's other triplet. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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