Thanks Barb, I am heading to B&N tonight and wanted to suggested reading to check out while I am there.
Appreciate the input!
Congrats to everyone that is assertive. I do not think I have a real problem with assertiveness per se, it is something different than that. I like being nice and putting others first, I do not have a problem with that. I put myself first when I want to or need to.
So here is the real deal. I like myself. I like myself alot more when I am feeling good about myself. When I have the confidence and hold my head high. It comes and goes for me. When I am feeling good about me, I lose weight, I eat healthier, I go to the gym, I just generally enjoy life more.
The problem is that slips away from me at times. I hate it. I have to fight to not slip away from the confident busywend.
So, I am fighting it now. Because I recognize it. I used to not even be aware I was slipping or had slipped into not good busywend.
Now that I recognize it I can tell I am sliding toward the dark side and I am holding on for dear life not to go back there!
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So, I need something that will help me realize everyday that I love the confident, fun, looking good busywend and want her to stay.
Does that make sense? I do not know what that would be called.