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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 653602" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>Weary, hang in there. She is rushing to a bottom. Hopefully <strong>the bottom</strong>. </p><p></p><p>Keep on doing everything you can to help yourself and take each "event" as it comes and deal with it then, as you decide to then.</p><p></p><p>You are right. She has much bigger problems than appearing in court. You already knew that, and these current events are just more confirmation. </p><p></p><p>The logistics are details, where she is living, what drugs she is doing, the court. What is important is that she is ramping up her addiction, and when that happens---I have seen it over and over again with my son---there will be a turn of events, either jail, or the hospital or rehab. </p><p></p><p>That is what has to happen with our difficult child kids. It's awful painful ugly and deeply scary. </p><p></p><p>I am so thankful that you are hanging on to your sanity and have turned a corner. That is a good thing, and not something to feel bad or guilty about. It is what IS. </p><p></p><p>Lots of good things are being said to you here. Most of us have been in the exact same situation with the phone calls, drama, "nowhere to go," etc. My son broke into my garage on a Thanksgiving Day, he stole from the neighbors, our good friends, he holed up in his dad's garage and cut his wrist and texted a picture to his girlfriend who called me, and I met the police there. </p><p></p><p>On and on with the drama. This is what they do on the way to the bottom.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there. Take care of YOU. Something will change soon. And I am praying it is a start on the way back up for her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 653602, member: 17542"] Weary, hang in there. She is rushing to a bottom. Hopefully [B]the bottom[/B]. Keep on doing everything you can to help yourself and take each "event" as it comes and deal with it then, as you decide to then. You are right. She has much bigger problems than appearing in court. You already knew that, and these current events are just more confirmation. The logistics are details, where she is living, what drugs she is doing, the court. What is important is that she is ramping up her addiction, and when that happens---I have seen it over and over again with my son---there will be a turn of events, either jail, or the hospital or rehab. That is what has to happen with our difficult child kids. It's awful painful ugly and deeply scary. I am so thankful that you are hanging on to your sanity and have turned a corner. That is a good thing, and not something to feel bad or guilty about. It is what IS. Lots of good things are being said to you here. Most of us have been in the exact same situation with the phone calls, drama, "nowhere to go," etc. My son broke into my garage on a Thanksgiving Day, he stole from the neighbors, our good friends, he holed up in his dad's garage and cut his wrist and texted a picture to his girlfriend who called me, and I met the police there. On and on with the drama. This is what they do on the way to the bottom. Hang in there. Take care of YOU. Something will change soon. And I am praying it is a start on the way back up for her. [/QUOTE]
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