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<blockquote data-quote="WearyMom18" data-source="post: 653649" data-attributes="member: 18856"><p>Today she called from this guy's phone that she's staying with and sounded like herself but was asking for money, says she's on the side of the road out of gas in this guy's truck. Interesting how he told me he owned his own business and had no problem with money and would help her but they are on the side of the road out of gas? Yeah...right. She started crying and yelling and hung up as usual when I said no. She called back about a half hour later crying saying she needed help, she needed the money and I told her no again. Haven't heard or gotten a text from her since. Re-blocked that number and I said nothing to her about her missed court date today even though I practically had to hold my mouth closed! I guess it's my own super-organized self that makes me want to notify her attorney that she won't be in court and keep track of dates and times and appointments but I have to let go of her stuff. The system will catch up to her eventually and I honestly think jail would be the best place for her. At least she would have very limited access to drugs if any. </p><p></p><p>I'm hanging in there, no sadness today, just feeling annoyed and a little tired but I'm pushing through each day so much better than a couple of months ago - what a difference this forum has done for me. Thank you all so very very much - my husband asks me every evening if I'm posting regularly and listening to what all of you are saying.</p><p></p><p>I read him your responses and he silent claps the whole time in total agreeance. I know he wants to say, 'I told you so!' but he doesn't because he knows how hard it's been to stop the co-dependency and detach from her.</p><p></p><p>On the drug piece of this - are there rehabs that homeless or people with no money can access for that kind of help? I've paid for a very expensive trip to rehab before and she got arrested while she was there so I'm not signing up for another rehab - I think she needs to seek that help when she's ready, on her own. I'm just not sure how it works or if there is such a thing as charity rehab.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WearyMom18, post: 653649, member: 18856"] Today she called from this guy's phone that she's staying with and sounded like herself but was asking for money, says she's on the side of the road out of gas in this guy's truck. Interesting how he told me he owned his own business and had no problem with money and would help her but they are on the side of the road out of gas? Yeah...right. She started crying and yelling and hung up as usual when I said no. She called back about a half hour later crying saying she needed help, she needed the money and I told her no again. Haven't heard or gotten a text from her since. Re-blocked that number and I said nothing to her about her missed court date today even though I practically had to hold my mouth closed! I guess it's my own super-organized self that makes me want to notify her attorney that she won't be in court and keep track of dates and times and appointments but I have to let go of her stuff. The system will catch up to her eventually and I honestly think jail would be the best place for her. At least she would have very limited access to drugs if any. I'm hanging in there, no sadness today, just feeling annoyed and a little tired but I'm pushing through each day so much better than a couple of months ago - what a difference this forum has done for me. Thank you all so very very much - my husband asks me every evening if I'm posting regularly and listening to what all of you are saying. I read him your responses and he silent claps the whole time in total agreeance. I know he wants to say, 'I told you so!' but he doesn't because he knows how hard it's been to stop the co-dependency and detach from her. On the drug piece of this - are there rehabs that homeless or people with no money can access for that kind of help? I've paid for a very expensive trip to rehab before and she got arrested while she was there so I'm not signing up for another rehab - I think she needs to seek that help when she's ready, on her own. I'm just not sure how it works or if there is such a thing as charity rehab. [/QUOTE]
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