I've posted a few times a number ago regarding my difficult child. He's 20 years old now and still occasionally acts like a 10 year old. Still in the drug scene. Pot, prescriptions, heroin, whatever he can get. He's the only child left in the house. He is a walking nightmare. When things aren't going his way or when he's confronted he becomes extremely angry and belligerent. He can be violent. Fortunately for us since he's gotten older he has taken to just leaving. He's punched holes in walls and broke things, stole and my wife's and my things. He was recently in a car accident and broke his hip. He was in the hospital for a week. Now he's stuck here with us. I confronted him this morning regarding something I just realized was missing and he had a meltdown. He actually said something like "when I get better you @&@&* will be running around scared of me again". We have called to police on him in the past(not nearly as much as I would have like). My wife try to avoid it. I've decided that when he gets well he will be leaving. The problem is my wife is not on board. I would be willing to fund an apartment for him or something just to get him away from me. I'm not sure if we can make it until then. Are there any other options? It's been 2 weeks since the accident. He can't walk.