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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 126039" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>thank you so much for your thoughts, my gut told me same. we have insurance for rin and at this point it has served us well, although i carelessly made the decision last year to go to the best of the best for her and well ya know the tale spent all our money between that and cutting down work hours to be with her. </p><p></p><p>anyway there i go rambling again......wanna laugh doctor said to me i seem to be exhibiting some of her behaviors now.......lmao. </p><p></p><p>anyway i too am afraid because if they do turn on me that would be bad and yes pandora's box for sure. i am alone with all decision making my ex takes major backseat to it all. boyfriend just advises let's me bounce ideas off, and backs me with decisions i make. overall decision making is legally mine. sometimes wish it wasnt, would be nice to have her dad inthe mix with me.</p><p></p><p>the old doctor, made an attempt to speak with rin ask her how she was feeling, took the time to work thru her walls and oddiites shall we say. this one does not. this doctor diagnosed same as old one. yet old one wasn't totally sold on BiPolar (BP) at time, now he seems to be. we also tried medicating solely for anxiety thinking that may be major cause and to also rule out BiPolar (BP). she flew into manic state that was an absolute horror show for i think it was 4 days. </p><p></p><p>i'm not going hardcore either until this testing is done as well, i haven't gotten the full neuropysch testing done, little bits when i went back into my notes initially at first hospital. </p><p></p><p>i just keep telling school to back off and deal till i get testing done and can sit with clear mind and meet with columbia and then the new pysch doctor, then go to old pysch doctor see what he has to say as well. </p><p></p><p>it is confusing but i am learning slowly very slowly. i think the diagnosis of BiPolar (BP) is or rather will offer her various services college some day, etc. i was also thinking shouldn't i have school test her as well. shouldn't there be an IEP in place. </p><p></p><p>school pysch said to me she wouldnt' qualify. i said how do you figure that one?? that's kinda insane to sat at this point. do you think i should have a iep in place as well? so scarey at times, i keep thinking of all her school records taht will follow her thru her academic career yet not letting the school fully acknowledge whatever the problem is isn't right either. we work solely off my words i have not submitted any type of doctor's to the school.</p><p></p><p>not everyone agrees with my approach to wait it out no drugs until the new testing is completed. yet i don't care i have to go with my gut on this one. right now i'm feeling no more medication's until i get that testign complete and have the opportunity to sit with all my various diagnosis's and findings. </p><p></p><p>it's scarey though i have to admit it truly is a little. their so so important these little people and we have so much power in their little lives.</p><p></p><p>i'm sorry to hear that he thought he had BiPolar (BP) also yet he did not. what behavior inparticular did they find that was indicitave of BiPolar (BP)??</p><p></p><p>i commend you on not giving up and not taking the first diagnosis as the final word.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 126039, member: 4514"] thank you so much for your thoughts, my gut told me same. we have insurance for rin and at this point it has served us well, although i carelessly made the decision last year to go to the best of the best for her and well ya know the tale spent all our money between that and cutting down work hours to be with her. anyway there i go rambling again......wanna laugh doctor said to me i seem to be exhibiting some of her behaviors now.......lmao. anyway i too am afraid because if they do turn on me that would be bad and yes pandora's box for sure. i am alone with all decision making my ex takes major backseat to it all. boyfriend just advises let's me bounce ideas off, and backs me with decisions i make. overall decision making is legally mine. sometimes wish it wasnt, would be nice to have her dad inthe mix with me. the old doctor, made an attempt to speak with rin ask her how she was feeling, took the time to work thru her walls and oddiites shall we say. this one does not. this doctor diagnosed same as old one. yet old one wasn't totally sold on BiPolar (BP) at time, now he seems to be. we also tried medicating solely for anxiety thinking that may be major cause and to also rule out BiPolar (BP). she flew into manic state that was an absolute horror show for i think it was 4 days. i'm not going hardcore either until this testing is done as well, i haven't gotten the full neuropysch testing done, little bits when i went back into my notes initially at first hospital. i just keep telling school to back off and deal till i get testing done and can sit with clear mind and meet with columbia and then the new pysch doctor, then go to old pysch doctor see what he has to say as well. it is confusing but i am learning slowly very slowly. i think the diagnosis of BiPolar (BP) is or rather will offer her various services college some day, etc. i was also thinking shouldn't i have school test her as well. shouldn't there be an IEP in place. school pysch said to me she wouldnt' qualify. i said how do you figure that one?? that's kinda insane to sat at this point. do you think i should have a iep in place as well? so scarey at times, i keep thinking of all her school records taht will follow her thru her academic career yet not letting the school fully acknowledge whatever the problem is isn't right either. we work solely off my words i have not submitted any type of doctor's to the school. not everyone agrees with my approach to wait it out no drugs until the new testing is completed. yet i don't care i have to go with my gut on this one. right now i'm feeling no more medication's until i get that testign complete and have the opportunity to sit with all my various diagnosis's and findings. it's scarey though i have to admit it truly is a little. their so so important these little people and we have so much power in their little lives. i'm sorry to hear that he thought he had BiPolar (BP) also yet he did not. what behavior inparticular did they find that was indicitave of BiPolar (BP)?? i commend you on not giving up and not taking the first diagnosis as the final word. [/QUOTE]
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