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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 627863" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>COM, he cut off the contact. But I feel it was kinder that he did that than tolerate us rudely which would not allow me to heal (I know how I am). There is no way I'd totally cut off all contact with my kids unless they, say, stole our retirement or were a physical threat to us. But, at the same time, he has blown it with Julie, Sonic and Jumper and husband and I am not really a fan of his personality and rigidity and judgment. So if he doesn't ever contact us again, that's ok. I know he is healthy and doing fine because my ex gives me snippets and that's all I need to know. It would be very hard to relate to him with his very strict beliefs...if I slip up and swear he gets very angry. If anyone has had sex before marriage, they are sluts and no good, etc. He has called my daughter one. He doesn't respect husband and me because we don't have money. It doesn't feel good to be around him.</p><p></p><p>I have four other kids. I have to think of the rest of my family, not just him. Knowing that he feels that way about Julie makes my stomach churn.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 627863, member: 1550"] COM, he cut off the contact. But I feel it was kinder that he did that than tolerate us rudely which would not allow me to heal (I know how I am). There is no way I'd totally cut off all contact with my kids unless they, say, stole our retirement or were a physical threat to us. But, at the same time, he has blown it with Julie, Sonic and Jumper and husband and I am not really a fan of his personality and rigidity and judgment. So if he doesn't ever contact us again, that's ok. I know he is healthy and doing fine because my ex gives me snippets and that's all I need to know. It would be very hard to relate to him with his very strict beliefs...if I slip up and swear he gets very angry. If anyone has had sex before marriage, they are sluts and no good, etc. He has called my daughter one. He doesn't respect husband and me because we don't have money. It doesn't feel good to be around him. I have four other kids. I have to think of the rest of my family, not just him. Knowing that he feels that way about Julie makes my stomach churn. [/QUOTE]
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