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<blockquote data-quote="Smithmom" data-source="post: 743450" data-attributes="member: 23371"><p>No answers only thoughts. And I apologize in advance and multiple times below. I live one day at a time. I don't make definite decisions for what I will do in this terrible situation 6 mo or a year from now. I decide if I will stay the course I have chosen today.</p><p></p><p>As I recall when you last posted there was too much pain for everyone. So you chose to cut off contact with him. The idea was to heal. To focus on the younger ones. That can't have happened so soon. </p><p></p><p>Talking about being Jesus generally refers to psychosis. I wonder if he even knows what day it is or when he last spoke to you. You don't refer to him missing contact with you. Only to your guilt about abandoning him. Is this true? If so, I would say that you should deal with your feelings in therapy rather than trying to make them better by contact with him. Just my thought from what you say. Apologies for being blunt.</p><p></p><p>Previously you referred to healing your relationship with the younger ones. Will that happen if you maintain contact behind their backs? Wouldn't that seem like some sort of tacit acceptance to them? Once there has been more healing perhaps they would understand but it still seems early days. But right now isn't it like meeting abusive Uncle Johnny for a drink, as long as they don't know it doesn't hurt them?</p><p></p><p>Sorry but these are just my thoughts as an outsider.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Smithmom, post: 743450, member: 23371"] No answers only thoughts. And I apologize in advance and multiple times below. I live one day at a time. I don't make definite decisions for what I will do in this terrible situation 6 mo or a year from now. I decide if I will stay the course I have chosen today. As I recall when you last posted there was too much pain for everyone. So you chose to cut off contact with him. The idea was to heal. To focus on the younger ones. That can't have happened so soon. Talking about being Jesus generally refers to psychosis. I wonder if he even knows what day it is or when he last spoke to you. You don't refer to him missing contact with you. Only to your guilt about abandoning him. Is this true? If so, I would say that you should deal with your feelings in therapy rather than trying to make them better by contact with him. Just my thought from what you say. Apologies for being blunt. Previously you referred to healing your relationship with the younger ones. Will that happen if you maintain contact behind their backs? Wouldn't that seem like some sort of tacit acceptance to them? Once there has been more healing perhaps they would understand but it still seems early days. But right now isn't it like meeting abusive Uncle Johnny for a drink, as long as they don't know it doesn't hurt them? Sorry but these are just my thoughts as an outsider. [/QUOTE]
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