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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 215338" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p> </p><p>im running out to dr for difficult child but will read these thru more carefully later. the thing here or shall i say problem is he doesn't seperate he allows her intrusions, and it causes me grief and us upheaval that is unnecessary.</p><p> </p><p>he thinks he "owes' her paying her bills, and her car insurance and us remaining in thsi ridiculously small place so she can live the way she does, he thinks he owes her a freindship, yet he does not. he thinks there is nothing wrong with any of it.</p><p> </p><p>if he knew how to draw the line there would be no issue. yet he does not, he sits on phone with-her joking, laughing, listening to her personal stuff. Than he allows her to mess up our life, thats' my issue here. It's been almost 2 years now and yes there has been some improvement yet not enough. She does what she does because she knows she can because his boundaries aren't in place.</p><p> </p><p>my therapist used to tel me all hte time he's still "taking care" of her. he has no boundaries yet. i can't survive in that where she can screw us up at any given time like for example this holiday thing.</p><p> </p><p>thanks, i'll write more later. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 215338, member: 4514"] hi im running out to dr for difficult child but will read these thru more carefully later. the thing here or shall i say problem is he doesn't seperate he allows her intrusions, and it causes me grief and us upheaval that is unnecessary. he thinks he "owes' her paying her bills, and her car insurance and us remaining in thsi ridiculously small place so she can live the way she does, he thinks he owes her a freindship, yet he does not. he thinks there is nothing wrong with any of it. if he knew how to draw the line there would be no issue. yet he does not, he sits on phone with-her joking, laughing, listening to her personal stuff. Than he allows her to mess up our life, thats' my issue here. It's been almost 2 years now and yes there has been some improvement yet not enough. She does what she does because she knows she can because his boundaries aren't in place. my therapist used to tel me all hte time he's still "taking care" of her. he has no boundaries yet. i can't survive in that where she can screw us up at any given time like for example this holiday thing. thanks, i'll write more later. :) [/QUOTE]
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