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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 284024" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Ok, a few thoughts here. First of all, you need a therapist to talk to. The therapist won't betray your trust and, regardless of the boy having three good weeks (it can happen), that doesn't make him any less dangerous. You need objective people to talk to who won't judge you. That is what a therapist is for. You have so much stress--you really do need somebody to talk to. If I recall, husband is in serious denial about the severity of his son's problems. ADHD doesn't even start to touch this kid's issues. I think it's beyond ADHD, way beyond Aspergers. This kid is showing psychopathic tendencies and all heck WILL break loose again and you won't have anyone to talk to if you don't have a therapist who is on YOUR side.</p><p></p><p>Many very sick individuals are very bright and prefer animals to people. Don't let husband lay a guilt trip on you. There is a lot inside of you which is the reason you told somebody who is less than trustworthy. Please, please get a therapist of your own. You don't even have to pay if you go to your county mental health services. You need somewhere to spill your guts. I don't think you need duct tape. I feel you need a compassionate, understanding person to listen to your very real fears who will give you advice that isn't biased and who won't threaten to "punish" you. You won't probably find such a person in a neighbor or "friend." Please be kind to yourself and get a therapist who will lend you an objective, kind ear. (((Hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 284024, member: 1550"] Ok, a few thoughts here. First of all, you need a therapist to talk to. The therapist won't betray your trust and, regardless of the boy having three good weeks (it can happen), that doesn't make him any less dangerous. You need objective people to talk to who won't judge you. That is what a therapist is for. You have so much stress--you really do need somebody to talk to. If I recall, husband is in serious denial about the severity of his son's problems. ADHD doesn't even start to touch this kid's issues. I think it's beyond ADHD, way beyond Aspergers. This kid is showing psychopathic tendencies and all heck WILL break loose again and you won't have anyone to talk to if you don't have a therapist who is on YOUR side. Many very sick individuals are very bright and prefer animals to people. Don't let husband lay a guilt trip on you. There is a lot inside of you which is the reason you told somebody who is less than trustworthy. Please, please get a therapist of your own. You don't even have to pay if you go to your county mental health services. You need somewhere to spill your guts. I don't think you need duct tape. I feel you need a compassionate, understanding person to listen to your very real fears who will give you advice that isn't biased and who won't threaten to "punish" you. You won't probably find such a person in a neighbor or "friend." Please be kind to yourself and get a therapist who will lend you an objective, kind ear. (((Hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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