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<blockquote data-quote="rejectedmom" data-source="post: 244892" data-attributes="member: 2315"><p>Thanks you Lisa, Lothlorien, TM and WO, I too am hoping it can be treated. </p><p> </p><p>I came down to breakfast this morning and I told husband that I was trying to fight off some depression he asked why and I told him that I was not happy about my hand and he says "why, does it feel worse today?" I lost it. We have a long history of him not understanding or being supportative of my physical and emotional needs. When things get difficult he dissapears and when he doesn't disappear he makes everything about him. He is like Mr. Spock so analytical and emotionless when others need him. Conversly, when it is him that is in need of anything the world must stop and attend. So I imploded because yet again he doesn't get it.</p><p> </p><p>I asked him : "What is going on isn't enough for me to feel down; it has to get worse before I can qualify for that? I could loose the use of my hand but I shouldn't feel sad and worried? This comming from someone who can't take a shot and panics over a ditigal prostrate exam?" I then took my tea into the sitting room and did some deep breathing exercises.</p><p> </p><p>And no believe me, it isn't just his choice of words. He backs it all up with actions. So now he is lying in bed sulking I guess those couple of chores I had asked him to do this weekend won't get done again. Oh what I'd give for a difficult child-free life! -RM</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rejectedmom, post: 244892, member: 2315"] Thanks you Lisa, Lothlorien, TM and WO, I too am hoping it can be treated. I came down to breakfast this morning and I told husband that I was trying to fight off some depression he asked why and I told him that I was not happy about my hand and he says "why, does it feel worse today?" I lost it. We have a long history of him not understanding or being supportative of my physical and emotional needs. When things get difficult he dissapears and when he doesn't disappear he makes everything about him. He is like Mr. Spock so analytical and emotionless when others need him. Conversly, when it is him that is in need of anything the world must stop and attend. So I imploded because yet again he doesn't get it. I asked him : "What is going on isn't enough for me to feel down; it has to get worse before I can qualify for that? I could loose the use of my hand but I shouldn't feel sad and worried? This comming from someone who can't take a shot and panics over a ditigal prostrate exam?" I then took my tea into the sitting room and did some deep breathing exercises. And no believe me, it isn't just his choice of words. He backs it all up with actions. So now he is lying in bed sulking I guess those couple of chores I had asked him to do this weekend won't get done again. Oh what I'd give for a difficult child-free life! -RM [/QUOTE]
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