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nervous! speaker phone call Wed @9am...
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<blockquote data-quote="DarkwingPsyduck" data-source="post: 686295" data-attributes="member: 20267"><p>It is called disengaging. To stop the pity parties and useless excuses before they even start. Engaging him when he does that only reinforces the idea that those things are acceptable, and that it isn't TRULY his fault. When it so clearly is. To argue when he chooses to blame you for <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> serves only to further convince him that he is right. Or why else argue? If that makes any sense. Those are the typical healthy answers to give him when he does it. It expresses the fact that you do care about him, without giving weight to those ridiculous claims.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DarkwingPsyduck, post: 686295, member: 20267"] It is called disengaging. To stop the pity parties and useless excuses before they even start. Engaging him when he does that only reinforces the idea that those things are acceptable, and that it isn't TRULY his fault. When it so clearly is. To argue when he chooses to blame you for :censored2: serves only to further convince him that he is right. Or why else argue? If that makes any sense. Those are the typical healthy answers to give him when he does it. It expresses the fact that you do care about him, without giving weight to those ridiculous claims. [/QUOTE]
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