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<blockquote data-quote="rebelson" data-source="post: 686331" data-attributes="member: 19966"><p>pigless, you are so right. I told someone this morning that since he's been inpatient the past 4wks, it's come out that he was resentful and jealous that I married my husband when son was 8 (I think he's also resentful that I had 2 more kids?). To me, this is a huge revelation and one that my son has been unable to verbalize to me all these years. I always wondered if this were the case...jealousy, resentment. But, now I pretty much have my answer. I feel sad about it but if I had done the opposite and stayed single (I was young when I had son.), I could very well <em><strong><span style="color: #0000ff">still</span></strong></em> be sitting here writing on this forum. As he still very well could've gone down the wrong path, right? And yes, what if then he was resentful that I did NOT remarry and provide him with a traditional family environment?</p><p></p><p>I am way beyond being 'hurt' by son's sometimes stinging words. Angry at times with things he says? Yes. Tired of hearing the mantra? Yes. And arguing or trying to disprove him does no good, I stopped that years ago. His perception is his, no matter if true/accurate or not.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="rebelson, post: 686331, member: 19966"] pigless, you are so right. I told someone this morning that since he's been inpatient the past 4wks, it's come out that he was resentful and jealous that I married my husband when son was 8 (I think he's also resentful that I had 2 more kids?). To me, this is a huge revelation and one that my son has been unable to verbalize to me all these years. I always wondered if this were the case...jealousy, resentment. But, now I pretty much have my answer. I feel sad about it but if I had done the opposite and stayed single (I was young when I had son.), I could very well [I][B][COLOR=#0000ff]still[/COLOR][/B][/I] be sitting here writing on this forum. As he still very well could've gone down the wrong path, right? And yes, what if then he was resentful that I did NOT remarry and provide him with a traditional family environment? I am way beyond being 'hurt' by son's sometimes stinging words. Angry at times with things he says? Yes. Tired of hearing the mantra? Yes. And arguing or trying to disprove him does no good, I stopped that years ago. His perception is his, no matter if true/accurate or not. [/QUOTE]
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