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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 691471" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>My sister's 3rd husband married her when he was already a senior citizen. After a honeymoon period, apparently (my sister does not talk to me) my sister would not allow her mother in law in her house. <em>Why doesn't L like me</em>, the poor woman asked my mother. My mother by that time was also shunned by my sister. And I was too.</p><p></p><p>Where I differ is that I do not believe there are conditions for my son to be my son. I cannot imagine a time or an event that would give rise to my deciding I did not love him, even if he did not ever again love me. That said, I cannot imagine a worse thing than his not loving me, or wanting to see me, except for his dying in my lifetime. I will always love him. I will always want to protect him. </p><p></p><p>I believe that closing our heart to our children kills us. It is not that they deserve love or not, deserve an inheritance or not, it is what it does to a mother when she closes off her heart to a child. That is what I think.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 691471, member: 18958"] My sister's 3rd husband married her when he was already a senior citizen. After a honeymoon period, apparently (my sister does not talk to me) my sister would not allow her mother in law in her house. [I]Why doesn't L like me[/I], the poor woman asked my mother. My mother by that time was also shunned by my sister. And I was too. Where I differ is that I do not believe there are conditions for my son to be my son. I cannot imagine a time or an event that would give rise to my deciding I did not love him, even if he did not ever again love me. That said, I cannot imagine a worse thing than his not loving me, or wanting to see me, except for his dying in my lifetime. I will always love him. I will always want to protect him. I believe that closing our heart to our children kills us. It is not that they deserve love or not, deserve an inheritance or not, it is what it does to a mother when she closes off her heart to a child. That is what I think. [/QUOTE]
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