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<blockquote data-quote="tunaq" data-source="post: 230738" data-attributes="member: 6597"><p>ok i am sick of judgements being passed that are completely out there so i am going to get this cleared up a bit.</p><p> </p><p>husband's issues are he suffers from depression after finding his mother dead on the floor of his home one day from a prescription drug overdose (he was an adult). his uncle on the opposite side of the family suffered from post tramatic stress disorder and died from a prescription drug overdose. husband's way of coping was to drink. Yes, he is an alcoholic and he has been to counseling for it all.</p><p> </p><p>my father committed suicide due to depression from my parents divorce when i was 3. I was tested multiple times growing up and guess what! there are absolutely no signs of anything at all wrong with me, aside from maybe i am too nice and tolerate too much from others. no matter what test doctors put me through, they could never even get my blood pressure to rise, and all told me i was way too calm. so i am sane!</p><p> </p><p>daughter is perfectly fine. always happy and smiling unless she is wet/poopy, sick or hungry, then she just wants mom! she is very much a mama's girl!</p><p> </p><p>DSS: yes, he has been through alot in his short life. yes i do feel for him for all that. he has been to counseling. one doctor said he was border line ADD but that is it. that's under control. he is smart, but he is lazy. when pushed, he can makes a's and b's, otherwise he is just lazy. all he has to do to turn in his school work, is hit the send button because the schools here do everything via the web. he will do the work and save it, but not hit the send button. he does have behavioral issues that need dealt with. </p><p> </p><p>I did not ask to be put in the mom role for him. my husband continually tells me he wants me to act like and be a mom to his son. I have told DSS I am not his mom and i would never try to replace her, i am just <strong>another</strong> mom who he can go to for help or advice when he needs it. I can't afford to have a flithy home with an infant in the house because i presonally am not one who is into having to do cpr or the hymlic on an infant who picked up something off the floor and shoved it in her mouth while i was dealing with the rest of the stuff i have to do. sorry but that is not my idea of a fun night, therefore my home will be clean to prevent that. add to it i am not into living like a slob and i don't really know anybody who is, but i know those people exist. so maybe wanting a clean home is my disorder.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tunaq, post: 230738, member: 6597"] ok i am sick of judgements being passed that are completely out there so i am going to get this cleared up a bit. husband's issues are he suffers from depression after finding his mother dead on the floor of his home one day from a prescription drug overdose (he was an adult). his uncle on the opposite side of the family suffered from post tramatic stress disorder and died from a prescription drug overdose. husband's way of coping was to drink. Yes, he is an alcoholic and he has been to counseling for it all. my father committed suicide due to depression from my parents divorce when i was 3. I was tested multiple times growing up and guess what! there are absolutely no signs of anything at all wrong with me, aside from maybe i am too nice and tolerate too much from others. no matter what test doctors put me through, they could never even get my blood pressure to rise, and all told me i was way too calm. so i am sane! daughter is perfectly fine. always happy and smiling unless she is wet/poopy, sick or hungry, then she just wants mom! she is very much a mama's girl! DSS: yes, he has been through alot in his short life. yes i do feel for him for all that. he has been to counseling. one doctor said he was border line ADD but that is it. that's under control. he is smart, but he is lazy. when pushed, he can makes a's and b's, otherwise he is just lazy. all he has to do to turn in his school work, is hit the send button because the schools here do everything via the web. he will do the work and save it, but not hit the send button. he does have behavioral issues that need dealt with. I did not ask to be put in the mom role for him. my husband continually tells me he wants me to act like and be a mom to his son. I have told DSS I am not his mom and i would never try to replace her, i am just [B]another[/B] mom who he can go to for help or advice when he needs it. I can't afford to have a flithy home with an infant in the house because i presonally am not one who is into having to do cpr or the hymlic on an infant who picked up something off the floor and shoved it in her mouth while i was dealing with the rest of the stuff i have to do. sorry but that is not my idea of a fun night, therefore my home will be clean to prevent that. add to it i am not into living like a slob and i don't really know anybody who is, but i know those people exist. so maybe wanting a clean home is my disorder. [/QUOTE]
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