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<blockquote data-quote="tunaq" data-source="post: 230760" data-attributes="member: 6597"><p>well we do know part of the reson he goes there alot is because the oldest of the 3 cousins that his mom is helping to raise, is very close to DSS and he is always stuck at his grandmas, so he texts and calls DSS all the time and begs him to come over. he also has a couple friends over by her from his previous school that he likes to visit.</p><p> </p><p>now the whole grandma as a friend approach unfortunately does not work for us beecause we have had major issues with her in the past, up until she had a heart attack about a year ago. DSS used to go to her house every day after school when he was living with his mom. one of the littlest cousins threw a baseball to DSS in the living room and he tossed it back to him and told him not to throw it in the house. well his cousin did not catch it and went into and overly dramatic whine when it hit his shoulder. DSS's grandma ran in and without hearing the entire story grabbed DSS, hauled him off to a room where she proceeded to whip his rear-end and anything else she happened to hit with a belt. the 4th or 5th swing, DSS grabbed the belt, jerked it away, hopped on his bike at 5:00pm and rode it clear across town to our house. husband let his exwife and her mom both know how unacceptable it was.</p><p> </p><p>i am a firm believer in spankings but only when necessary and by parents not grandparents. grandparents are supposed to spoil you and love you. if you do something that drastic, maybe, yeah some sort of punishment, but i don't agree with multiple lashings from a belt.</p><p> </p><p>yes granted the grandma is also helping raise her sons 3 kids. he works full time and she and DSS's mom pretty well raise the kids while he works because their drug addict mom up and left one night, filed for divorce. so yes. the grandma has a full plate, but she can be totally unfair to DSS and it is because she has issues with husband and i both.</p><p> </p><p>thank you for being so understanding and supportive<img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/peaceful.png" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":peaceful:" title="peaceful :peaceful:" data-shortname=":peaceful:" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="tunaq, post: 230760, member: 6597"] well we do know part of the reson he goes there alot is because the oldest of the 3 cousins that his mom is helping to raise, is very close to DSS and he is always stuck at his grandmas, so he texts and calls DSS all the time and begs him to come over. he also has a couple friends over by her from his previous school that he likes to visit. now the whole grandma as a friend approach unfortunately does not work for us beecause we have had major issues with her in the past, up until she had a heart attack about a year ago. DSS used to go to her house every day after school when he was living with his mom. one of the littlest cousins threw a baseball to DSS in the living room and he tossed it back to him and told him not to throw it in the house. well his cousin did not catch it and went into and overly dramatic whine when it hit his shoulder. DSS's grandma ran in and without hearing the entire story grabbed DSS, hauled him off to a room where she proceeded to whip his rear-end and anything else she happened to hit with a belt. the 4th or 5th swing, DSS grabbed the belt, jerked it away, hopped on his bike at 5:00pm and rode it clear across town to our house. husband let his exwife and her mom both know how unacceptable it was. i am a firm believer in spankings but only when necessary and by parents not grandparents. grandparents are supposed to spoil you and love you. if you do something that drastic, maybe, yeah some sort of punishment, but i don't agree with multiple lashings from a belt. yes granted the grandma is also helping raise her sons 3 kids. he works full time and she and DSS's mom pretty well raise the kids while he works because their drug addict mom up and left one night, filed for divorce. so yes. the grandma has a full plate, but she can be totally unfair to DSS and it is because she has issues with husband and i both. thank you for being so understanding and supportive:peaceful: [/QUOTE]
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