I post occasionally. Daughter was doing pretty well, living at home with 2 year old son, working - not without problems, but making improvements. Then new boyfriend enters picture - she's gone for days at a time, constant lying. The heartbreaker - little guy crying saying "mommy gone." Drugs, alcohol in her room where he can get to them. We told her if she wants to move we'd take care of little guy - she jumped at the opportunity and has moved out. Little guy still saying "mommy gone" Baby daddy just got out of jail. We talked to a lawyer about guardianship - she said for now best to stabilize little guys situation. This is not the retirement we envisioned, but we're willing to do what's best for the little guy. Daughter still working as far as we know.