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New future Step-Mom needs help with probable ODD child
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 417417" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I think you should get into family therapy. And don't expect LittlePeace to care what you think or say...you are new to him and his father picked you out...LittlePeace had nothing to say about it. </p><p></p><p>I was divorced three years before my kids ever met anyone I dated (they didn't even know I dated). After three years (and two OTHER years on top of that separated from hub) the kids were still hostile toward the idea of another man in my life and they took it out on my current husband.</p><p></p><p> I think it's great that your fiance's son's dad will have more time to spend with him and that the pressure will be taken off of you. You should not have to be this child's main caregiver. Also, if YOU try to discipline him, he could resist you and resent you...I don't know if it's like that in your house, but my kids would NOT listen to my hub. Only now that they are grown do they like him...lol. It took a long time <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 417417, member: 1550"] I think you should get into family therapy. And don't expect LittlePeace to care what you think or say...you are new to him and his father picked you out...LittlePeace had nothing to say about it. I was divorced three years before my kids ever met anyone I dated (they didn't even know I dated). After three years (and two OTHER years on top of that separated from hub) the kids were still hostile toward the idea of another man in my life and they took it out on my current husband. I think it's great that your fiance's son's dad will have more time to spend with him and that the pressure will be taken off of you. You should not have to be this child's main caregiver. Also, if YOU try to discipline him, he could resist you and resent you...I don't know if it's like that in your house, but my kids would NOT listen to my hub. Only now that they are grown do they like him...lol. It took a long time :) [/QUOTE]
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